Newbie Alert

Hello, my name is BlindedHope. As you can tell by the title, I am most certainly considered a newbie, a quiet lost and anxious newbie indeed. As I'm writing this, I am downloading the TEF game and have a lot of questions in mind. Would it be okay if I post some of them? I'd appreciate if a kind user would help me answer them!

1. I'd like my character/deer to be female, but am I supposed to remove it's antlers to indicate that she is female? I found most of the Antlers quite pretty, but I'm afraid other users might think that my deer is male.
2. Is there a way to find my Pictogram? In other words, where may I obtain an image of it?
3. Is there any important information I need to know?

That's about it! Now I must wait 1 month for my young fawn to grow up, but I'd love to meet new friends in the meantime!

Thank you to all users who would spare their time just to read this silly post.