Now i AM scared! >.<

Nala's picture
Okay, so this weir guy added me to his msn a loong time ago, and since then he's been asking me intensivly where I live, an now he said I ahve beautiful hair, an beautiful eyes an he keeps telling me I'm sexy, but I don't even know the guy? He sais he lives in a city that's a few miles away from me, but I don't know if he's telling the truth, unfortunatly, I think he knows where I live. Now my big question is, should I bee worried about this creep? O.o

0_o I'd be. I'd tell him to

0_o

I'd be.

I'd tell him to shut up and get lost.

And if I ever saw the guy in RL

I would slap him.

I hate guys like that.

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Nala's picture

Haha yeah! I woul for sure

Haha yeah! I woul for sure slap him as well! But I meant, should I really be afrai of this guy, will he try to find me, even stalk me?! O.o
Maybe he's just one of those guys that teeses you but he seems so serious! >.<
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If he keeps it up I'd say

If he keeps it up I'd say shut up leave me alone you creep me out then if he kept it up after that I'd yell GET LOST and I'd remove him from your msn if I were you.

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Density's picture

Meh, I would just simply

Meh, I would just simply ignore the creeper. He'll get tired of you not responding and will leave you alone after a while. Hopfully. :]
Nala's picture

I just told him that if he

I just told him that if he tries something like this again i'll contact the police for sure, to try and scare him off, but he in't reply. >.<
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That is creepy, but I don't

That is creepy, but I don't understand something...why are you worried that he knows where you live if you have never told him? It's most likely someone who just enjoys making people uncomfortable, but if you are worried about it, tell a parent or a teacher at school Smiling
Oh, and it is all well and good to joke about it on the internet, but I would think should you meet this person in real life, don't do anything you think would be cool...you might just end up in more trouble. (Sorry if that sounds like I think your stupid or something, not intended at all! Just playing the warning parental voice of reason lol)

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The reason I think he knows

The reason I think he knows where I live is I had a website before, with my photographs, that said where I lived! >.<
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Aww that...sucks. Well, in

Aww that...sucks.

Well, in all honesty, I bet its just someone being a jerk.



And I hope you've learned your lesson about putting stuff like that on the internet >_>
*will stop nagging like an old grandmother now* <_<

Anzel's picture

My question is...and don't

My question is...and don't be offended, but...why the hell did you add a random guy to your MSN? You could have declined. Furthermore, why not block him? If he "comes after you", "stalks you", just block him and block him and ignore him as much as you can.

Just my thoughts. My mom's ex-bf from High School randomly decided to stalk her for a time. But she kept ignoring him, and ignoring him, and he forgot about her.

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I've had a few guys add me

I've had a few guys add me to MSN like that. I just try to be polite the first time I talk to them, and then block them if I get any kind of weird vibe at all. For the most part, I only add people I've known for a while and trust, either from real life or from other websites.

I'd just block him, he sounds creepy. D: But don't make him mad or insult him -- that's treading on thin ice, there...
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Fledermaus's picture

Yikes- I would advise that

Yikes- I would advise that you delete the information on the website if you can and tell him that the way he talks to you is making you uncomfortable, then block him. I've seen a demonstration at my high school on how internet predators can locate someone's house just by having a few pieces of information about them (like their email, the color of their room, and their school) and by doing a little research they can find out where you live. It wasn't a very difficult thing to do, either.

So I'd be very cautious about what you tell this guy and what information you have on the internet.
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Nala's picture

LT just maded me nervous,

LT just maded me nervous, cause I told him I woul contact the police if he tried something again to try and scare him of, and I also sai something like, don't you are to ever say something like that to me again, I got so insulted, and after that he didn't reply, and just logged out after a while, what if I aggrovated him?? O.o
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Nala's picture

Okey, overlooking what

Okey, overlooking what everyone has to say about this, I'm so scare I'll cry myself to sleep tonight... Ô.o
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Don't worry, just be careful

Don't worry, just be careful not to give out too much information ok?

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Koonie's picture

Dont reply to his messages

Dont reply to his messages and get a new account somewhere else. Change your username, password, all that jazz. Ignore him and things should go back to normal.




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Yeah, I guess if I just

Yeah, I guess if I just ignore him things would get back to normal, as you said, but some creepy people like him ends up stalking the person. What if I have a stalker on my hands now?! >.<
And as martisol said, I will NEVER say anything to this guy ever again, but I don't know what he possibly already knows about me, he knows my full name, and I think he knows my age and where I live! >.< MAN I'm scared now..
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Fledermaus's picture

Don't worry yourself too

Don't worry yourself too much, it's likely that since you've told him off he won't be interested in pursuing the effort. But still be cautious about any of his messages.

EDIT: Also, it's probable that he's all talk and no threat, but you can never be too sure.
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Flyra's picture

That's rubbish. I can

That's rubbish. I can promise you, really just rubbish. -.- I had something similar a few years ago in ICQ, a chatting program (I think you know ^^). He wrote to me in english (what's a little weird, cuz I'm german). He wanted me to add him to my contact, but I didn't, but talked to him anyway. I dunno why. But then he started saying weird things. He said he was from turkey and 17 years old (I was 12 or so xD), but he needed a young girlfriend. Very funny. But when I started to ignore him, he stopped writing anything to me.
You should do the same thing. It will help. Eye If not, you really should change your account or add him to ignore list (is this possible in MSN? <8D).


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Nala's picture

Yeah, I guess, but like you

Yeah, I guess, but like you said, you can never be to sure about it...

A similar thing happend when me and my best friend travelled to norway, we stayed at a fishingcamp in a city called "hamaröy", and there was this creepy old man who always smiled at us kin of weirdly, and one time he and some frinds or family of his walked by an he was acting all nice, and asked us where we lived, an we where smart enough to give him a false city name, thank god. But he was allways hanging about around our cabin, and when we where ready to leave, he packed his bags and came after us, but gave up efter he realized we where going a bit further then he might have expected.. Still that incident scared the living crap out of me! >.<
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Flyra's picture

Oh well, poor you, that

Oh well, poor you, that really sounds horrible... but you had luck...
But that's a little different. People in the I-Net can always give in what they'd like to, nobody can really find out if it's true or not. These guy who you had this "problems" with maybe were two 11-year-old friends whose were bored and wanted to have some fun... maybe...
Just ignore him first, I'd guess that helps. Eye


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I didn't mean to scare you

Sad I didn't mean to scare you (nobody did!), but just think of this as a good learning experience. Smiling

Nala's picture

I know no one was after

I know no one was after scaring me, I'm just a very nervous person so this really scare me up! >.<
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PsychedelicWow's picture

Block him immediately and

Block him immediately and anyone else who bothers you like this again. He's not worth the stress.

And if I can get on my soap box:
Your profile says you're 13. That's way too young to release your home city publicly. Even I don't do that, and I'm 20.
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Nala's picture

Yeah I know, but does it say

Yeah I know, but does it say i'm 13? I'm 14 really, but anyhow, I was young and foolish when I release that, I was only about 10 or something xp maybe younger when I wrote it Sticking out tongue
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PsychedelicWow's picture

It says you were born in 95,

It says you were born in 95, just a math error on my part, ha ha.
Ah well, as long as you know now. I've done similar mistakes online when I was 10.
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Awh, poor you. *gives a big

Awh, poor you. *gives a big hug*
I'm very nervous person myself so i know how you feel. But i don't think you have a reason to panic and sleep unwell because of it. You're going to be just fine.
I'm sure that guy is just all talk. It's easy to say things for people in the internet because you don't have to face them in real life. Some people just wants to see how you'll react to their sayings.
I guess he has gotten your information from your website... that's where he propably got your MSN too? I'd just block him and forget about him. Ignoring has always worked for me at least.

If you really feel unwell about it, you should talk about it with your parents or some adult in your school.


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Well hey I've made a strange habit of looking over my shoulder A LOT! I'm always nervous someone's gonna come behind me and shoot me or stab me or something and I'm scared that one night I'll wake up and someone with a knife will be like about to stab me and stuff. *shivers* I need to stop watching LOTR and Eragon over and over again 0_o

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Thanks quams<3 I guess I

Thanks quams<3 I guess I should try to simply ignore it! (:
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Flyra's picture

LOL Martisol xD I luuuv LOTR

LOL Martisol xD
I luuuv LOTR & Eragon (but not the Eragon movie. Really. It's rubbish. Arya doesn't even have elf ears! >:[).

@Nala: That's the best, easiest and most effectfullest thing to do. ;D I wish you good luck with that. Smiling


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Quote:Eragon movie. Really.

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Eragon movie. Really. It's rubbish

Agree so much xDD

I hate how defenseless and weak I am. I dunno what would i do if someone came harassing me irl. .____.'
I'm such a coward. And i hate it.

Some self-defense courses would do me some good. lol.


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Block the nut, he's a perv.

Block the nut, he's a perv.

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lemon's picture

Aww, I didn't mean to scare

Aww, I didn't mean to scare you, Nala. D:

I'm just a really nervous person, and I grew up in a really super protective household, so I tend to think the worst of people over the internet. x____x

Ironic, considering that's how I met my boyfriend. xD But that should tell you what a great guy he is. <3 Ahem, got sidetracked there. :'DD

But anyway, good luck! I agree that you probably don't have anything to worry about, as long as you cut off your communication with him. I'd watch who adds you to MSN from now on, too. I know some people get new accounts and try to add you again if they suspect that they've been blocked.
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Zergarikiaka's picture

Yikes... I'd say call the

Yikes... I'd say call the athorities if you hear anymore things like that from him...

I kind of had a similar experiance once... though the guy was appearantly living in flordia and allegidly 'memorised my address years ago' after getting it probably threw hacking my computer once. (That's happened... :/ hackers suck.) Then he claimed he'd drop by and kidnap me or something last summer since he was going to a wedding in my town... My gosh, I was absolutely paranoid and scared the entire summer... especially when the doorbell rang.

In a nutshell... if someone claims to know where you live, or acts like it... DX It's bad.

(I still flinch IRL when I hear doorbells ring now. :/)
Koonie's picture

I know some good firends of

I know some good firends of mine who have gone through similar instances. I told them what to do about it and worked, very well. Nally Poo, you're not gonna get kidnapped and he's not gonna find you. *is like mother* Rest easy tonight and worry not *tucks in and hugs* Good night, Nala. *gets up and turns off bedroom light while walking out of room*



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He hasn't theathend me, he

He hasn't theathend me, he just started to say some really pervert things, creepy really. And he intensivly asked me where I live. And like I said, I din't tell him, but I do think he knows anyway, since my webside had my home-city posted there. But before this creepishness began, he was very nice, you know, just generally talking to me like a person talsk to another person. xD Then he said these weird things that made my heart beat a hundred times faster than healthy! O___x And since I'm a verry nervous, jumpy person all in all, I have a feeling I have some tuff months ahead of me! O.o
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Anzel's picture

Block him, delete him,

Block him, delete him, ignore him from now on. Don't trust him.

Not to scare you; if he was asking such things, he doesn't know and can't know unless you tell him. So you're safe :3 But he's a creepoid. DON'T. I repeat. DON'T. Talk to him anymore.

And you'll be fine.

DON'T EVER CALL

DON'T

EVER

CALL ERAGON

RUBBISH

AGAIN!

Though yeah they missed a few tiny details in the movie and messed up a few things (like where Angela was SUPPOSED to give Eragon his fortune and where Jeod lived bu STILL) BUT ERAGON WILL STILL BE ONE OF MY FAVORITE STORIES OF TIME.

You better watch out those of you who think Eragon is dumb. This isn't a threat or anything but you might get on my bad side and like Martisol, I have a real temper.

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Neiko's picture

(late post lol) This sort of

(late post lol)

This sort of thing is why I only accept people I know to be on my MSN list :c
Fenqua's picture

Tell me where he lives and

Tell me where he lives and I'll kill him.

Urgh, I can't stand guys like that, (randomly) scaring sweet, innocent girls! Just get rid of him and be careful the next time someone random adds you. I accepted once before, because I am curious. But curiosity killed the cat, so be aware Eye


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Fenqua's picture

@ Martisol: Can't we have an

@ Martisol:

Can't we have an own opinion? Why would someone get on your bad side if they think otherwise about something you like? That's really sad and unfair.

Ignore this if your comment wasn't serious xD


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Koonie's picture

Plesh beh nice people! No

Plesh beh nice people! No fighting! I come at you if you fight!




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Nono, Martisol, I absolutely

Nono, Martisol, I absolutely looove Eragon, but I think they could have done the movie muuuuch better. -.- Although, I have the DVD and the film book for Eragon with explanations how they did it and so on. xDDD


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Anzel's picture

I'm never going to read

I'm never going to read Eragon...1.) It is a fantasy, and I don't care for fantasies...2.) I don't particularly care for the creativity of the title alone...which is Dragon, with the D moved 1 letter forward in the alphabet. Mmm.

Well ok Anzel you have your

Well ok Anzel you have your opinions and I have mine.

Yeah they could have done a lot better on the movie. Like Arya's eyes were supposed to be green (yeah it was in the books.) they missed a lot of details.

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Simple answer: BLOCK HIM. Do

Simple answer: BLOCK HIM.
Do not play around with creeps like that!