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Hello, everyone! I'm New here, and I was hoping someone may be able to help me a little.

I play a deer by the name of Manyan, still a wee little fawn and I've noticed while walking around in the game and just meeting some other deer that I'm completely lost. Not directionally (as I figured out the trick last night) but about the forest actions and about the pelts, masks, and antlers.

I know that you use the abiogenisis to change what your pelts, masks, and antlers look like. Are these only strictly for grown deer or can the fawns also get these ( aside from the posies and hyacinths)? I thought I saw a few people on the site with screen caps of butterfly fawns and the pretty blue ones? I know they wont have antlers as they are still young.

This beign said, I was also wondering how you grow up? Do you just play and gradually grow, or do you jsut magically one day appear with a grown deer?

And, another question. The Pictograms. I see that other deer in the game have them above their heads. My dear doesn't have this even after logging in.

Please help? Ill really appreciate it. AND Sorry for the bother.

my deer may be unresponsive and or moody.
it's just a bad cold I think, but it's very unpleasant all the same ;-;