*SIGH* Is it hypocritical...?

Zergarikiaka's picture
That now even I am getting sick of the violence and 'evil' and 'blood' and all that stuff that has been spewing out this last several months?
Especially considering on Deviantart I'm participating (and moving to the second round) in "Blood Sport 2"?

I think I'm actually getting tired of all this violence and negativity. I don't even feel like going in the forest anymore at this point. Crazy as it sounds I played my secret new deer a few days ago for the first time... and right away it was met with 1.) Being attacked by an adult deer, 2.) ignored by others, 3.) shown hostility, all within the first 5 minutes of play? (And all without provolking others!)

The constant need to RP in forest is starting to wear me out too... It's like... you can't play OOC anymore. You can't walk up to others and just have fun, unlike it used to be.

We need an OOC day or something. 8/

I mean, I'm at a point where I half want to shoot down my own "Darkweaver", "Ebony"(even though she's not caused any trouble yet), and "Spill", just to somewhat lower the amount of evil deer. 8<

Seriously, I get my fill of blood and violence on DA right now... Do I really need to also deal with it on what was supposed to be a peaceful game? Can we not turn it down for a day anymore?


~Zerg

-Just tired of it.

And I know I'll be flamed now.
Sithrim's picture

It's okay. Places change with

It's okay.
Places change with time, with new people.
All you need to do is find the other charming side that wasn't there when you first joined.


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Shiori's picture

Maybe this violence only

Maybe this violence only happens in certain times? because honestly I'm not seeing that much of it when I get on, no more than 'usual', and I've already kind of learned what groups of deer to avoid. There's always plenty of deer who seem welcoming in the forest if you just go up and have fun -shrug- If not, you go somewhere else. Not everyone wants to play all the time, IC or OOC.
Zergarikiaka's picture

I've tried, and accepted it

I've tried, and accepted it for a long time... but now it's just exausting. 8<
I mean, every other deer seems to be a demon, vampire, skellington, zombie, or what have you. It feels like a contest started for 'who can make the most evil/villianous' deer.


@shi: Yeah... I've been on TEF long enough to know who to not go around... but seriously... when you start playing a new fawn and try to approach a group of other fawns and get randomly attacked by a deer that was just dancing with them... it bothers me. 8< I mean, I did nothing more than bow, and somehow I'm getting moo'd at and antlered at. wtf?
I just installed the latest TEF patch like 4 days ago... so I'm not familiar with a lot of the new players and picto's, but still.
Briwolf's picture

I love morbid things and

I love morbid things and creepy stuffs like cannibalism, but I do not enjoy walking around and being STABBED WITH ABOUT 5 PAIRS OF ANTLERS when I'm minding my own buisness.

You wont be flamed. If you are I'll put the fire out. 8D

When I first got on everyone was kind... even the morbid-looking deer. =)


Also(editfailure) a lot of people like dark things now-a-days. D8
A Fallen Angel
destined to fly
broken and crazy
but too strong to cry
Seele's picture

I'm in the same boat Zerg. I

I'm in the same boat Zerg. I really -am- tired. But what can we do? Nothing. It's something that's populair atm. Next time, there will be something else. Like singing squirrels or something.
And then we'll get tired of that. D8
Briwolf's picture

Demon

Demon deer...

:|...

-giggle-

It may be a phase... Just search for the more colorful deer. 8D Or make a colorful deer. 8D

8D...
A Fallen Angel
destined to fly
broken and crazy
but too strong to cry
Verycrazygirl's picture

I'm tired of it too. Very

I'm tired of it too.
Very much so...

I'm also tired about the way so many refuse to take into consideration that not everyone on TEF are here to RP.
Too strictly IC.
There are hundreds of RP sites out there that encourage this stuff.
And one TEF which was ment to be a haven.
Now there is another RP site, and no haven.

Zergarikiaka's picture

Sad thing is: I'm basically

Sad thing is: I'm basically the one who grew up on "Aliens", "Predator", and every horror movie you could find. Even I have a cannibal demon deer, but I'm actually SICK of it now. 8<

Seriously, anti-violence or OOC day, anyone? Plz?

And exactly! We've lost the haven! Now it's violent RP without HP bars and ATK stats.
Briwolf's picture

I honestly did not see too

I honestly did not see too much deer RP'ing when I was on. They all just ran around with me and screwed around with masks, pelts, and antlers. XD

Though it's way too aggrivating when people are so much into their RP and get so mad when you walk by and "ruin" it. o.e

Then again it's fun just to ruin their RP. :3


EDIT: LOL USE FLAMETHROWER
OOC days should be like...

Every hour or less. o.e
A Fallen Angel
destined to fly
broken and crazy
but too strong to cry
Zergarikiaka's picture

Hehe, yes.

Hehe, yes.
Verycrazygirl's picture

I think I know just the right

I think I know just the right person to organize an OOC day... Cool

Zergarikiaka's picture

ooooh. 8D Do tell?

ooooh. 8D Do tell?
Briwolf's picture

I'm not much into IC anyways.

I'm not much into IC anyways. XD I just like running around with random people, but it would be great to have an OOC day so we can have a little more...

...Freedom?

Without somehow not-being-allowed-to-go-to-certain-parts-of-the-forests because it's "OUR RP SECTION RAWR" o.e
A Fallen Angel
destined to fly
broken and crazy
but too strong to cry
Zergarikiaka's picture

Heck, even kick in the

Heck, even kick in the "random" or silly deer if yua don't want to go OOC. The silly ones practacally are OOC anyway with how the forest is these days. I mean really... *points at her own Zerg-Doe* I don't think it's even possable to make a plot for her. XD
Verycrazygirl's picture

I'll talk to her soon!

I'll talk to her soon! Laughing out loud

Briwolf's picture

Yeah. XD I dont even know

Yeah. XD I dont even know much about my own deer I just know I dont really have an actually line between OOC and IC. e_e
A Fallen Angel
destined to fly
broken and crazy
but too strong to cry

Maybe I just don't see

Maybe I just don't see it...but I've never experienced all RAWR. (Except for the she/he-who-shall-not-be-named incident) X3
Plus non of my deer are running around all "I'mma each chu for walking by me"
Plus I don't have all evil deer. X3
So...I see the forest as it has been the first time I walked into it.
A beautiful mixture of good and evil.
Maybe it's your own dislike of having your evil characters?
Maybe it's time to branch out and make a 'good/nice/frolicky' character.
Zergarikiaka's picture

Well, I do still have my good

Well, I do still have my good characters active and all. In fact I had been here for almost a year before I pulled out my first evil deer... and that was because at the time I thought he'd be too much for the site and I might have to get rid of him. Turns out even my evil deer are too moderate to fit the trend. |D

But then again I often go OOC while playing them so I won't upset new players. <_<
They're very cencored so as to avoid drama.

I MEAN REALLY. XD I've had Spill play with Darcy and fawns right after indirectly torturing someone who would play along... by having him go OOC. It's NOT that HARD. XD And technically, Spill was the one who 'killed' Wesker a while back. XD

I'm tired of having Role Play

I'm tired of having Role Play equal 'violent characters running around causing chaos'.
There are multitudes of characters who are played in The Forest who aren't violent or even remotely chaotic. Don't instantly lump everyone who RPs into that category. It makes the peaceful role players like myself feel like our efforts aren't worth being recognized beyond 'Oh you RP, you cause drama.'.

Semi-related, just had to get that of my chest. *sigh*
Sithrim's picture

I think the major reason why

I think the major reason why people create evil characters is because the thrill of a good story has to have some action. Some action means something that will disturb one's happy life and we call that the peripety of a story. In every single book you will have that kind of presence. That evil presence that is going to allow the whole story to build up.
Human nature has that tendency of taking pleasure with one's suffering. I know it may sound wrong but whether you accept it or not, it is a fact.

Otherwise, we wouldn't have so much stories that finish with ''and they lived happyly ever after''. Why? Because that end doesn't matter anymore. They're happy, period. Nothing to worry about it because the 'hero' of that story is not in danger anymore. And the reader may just imagine it as he wishes. But what he read is the most important part.

I know this might sound out of subject - but I think it's the spirit of it. Happy and frolicking fellows do look amazingly pure, but pretty 'empty' too...
Besides, I do believe no one is perfect. Some just feel they have to hyperbolize it a bit more.


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Zergarikiaka's picture

I hear yua Tera. Heck,

I hear yua Tera.

Heck, that's why lately I'm more inclined to play my peaceful deer... Like Mar Sart and the very random but always good natured Zergarikiaka.
Even playing as 'Daiki' while technically having Dark in forest. ... Because that turns the 'grumpy old man who is evil and eats others and fights anyone who looks at him weird' into 'mr. sunshine; life of a party'.
Alecsander's picture

I agree. I've had problems

I agree.

I've had problems in forest with having to tip-toe around certain groups.
I fully admit I've been playing 'out of character' with Seshi for some time when faced with aggression because I don't want to encourage it.

If I were in character he would fight the deer back and continue to do it after they have run.
I will not allow him to do so because I don't want to give the user the warm fuzzies of having their evil deer get attention and make myself also appear as an annoying harasser.

Everything I do in forest with my friends is done with full conversations. If my deer is fighting another deer it's because I and that user chose to do it or they're *playing*. We know they're playing because I asked their player to spar/flower fight/what have you.


I do not lower horns/try to fight strangers or to merely show aggression unprovoked. To actually reach for those buttons I have to be constantly pushed through continued harassment.

Half the time I'm just frustrated and trying to say "NO! I won't RP with you. Shoo!" with repeated head shaking 'no', dancing, and laying down.


I mean even the evil character I've been known to play for Pictodeer, Basil, has a trigger to stop him. If hes being unnecessarily stupid to you then lead him to flowers and he will put them in his antlers and become passive. No more mister mean deer. He won't fight, he won't be angry, and it's all in character.

I know some evil deer stop if they're devout pelted also or if they drink water.
But there are so many that just do not stop. period. No matter what you do because the player choose to allow their deer to be relentless because it is entertaining for them to bully others in the forest or what have you. I'm fine with evil characters in role-play and story, but sometimes you have to sit yourself down and say "Am I being unnecessarily rude in forest in order to preserve my deer's personality for the sake of my story writing?"

You can have a character who is a bloodthirsty killer in story/RP without that necessarily equaling bad forest behavior. Look at Bylah. He eats people and destroys everything. Yet, in forest he doesn't run about trying to destroy everyone's deer. He sits, and if you bug him he tells you to go away or leaves. Won't chase, won't harrass.

It just seems like evil

It just seems like evil characters are the only ones who get recognition... I mean, the only time a character gets attention is when they've done something wrong. That's not right.

Now I understand that interesting characters get more attention, and that I can appreciate, but interesting is not limited to evil or villainous. It burns me up to see a 'flat', very minutely developed evil character get more attention than a amazingly well crafted character who happens to not be aggressive.

This could be why we're seeing so many darker characters. New players (not that they are to blame, don't get me wrong!) come to the community site and most of what they see are blogs about whatever deer is ruffling feathers are the moment. It sends the message that to get recognition, to get comments, and have people know who you are (and lets face it, when you're new that's what you want. You crave to make a niche for yourself in the community) you have to create a dark character. That's not true.

I've been trying to think of ways to give more peaceful characters a bit more of the spot-light on the community site, but I'd love to hear if anybody has any ideas about how to do that. While I want to reward the more peaceful players, I don't in any way wish to make players of evil characters feel like they aren't wanted. Anybody have any ideas?
Zergarikiaka's picture

Yes, exactly. It's a severe

Yes, exactly.
It's a severe pain when players basically make their deer the 'invulnerable bad guy' type and attack at random... especially attacking fawns who likely are new players.

Incidentally I also dislike when there's a character fight that's already preorganised and OKed between two players (like me and Scythe having Dark and Wesker fight) and others need to run in and attack whichever deer seems to be winning.

heck, last time I had my own deer fight, which was like... months ago... He wound up moving from fighting Wesker as usual to being basically mobbed and chased across the forest and into the lake. :/
Even when I changed pelt, started acting 'injured', and repeatedly trying to leave and express 'no'!. That was kind of 'it' for me.
Alecsander's picture

Tera, An easy way I think to

Tera,
An easy way I think to do that would be to have a community effort to post when a deer is being *nice* to other people and make an effort to publicly thank the player for being a good person. Whether it be through art, story, a hearty handshake, a nice pick me up, whatever. Make that user feel good and wanted for their good behavior so they don't feel obligated to make a 2-D static hellion for attention.

I mean clearly nice players have to be popular. Ephra's deer 21 is very well known FOR being nice.

I consider myself somewhat 'well known' and my deer are some of the sweetest as can be. People seem to appreciate seeing them in forest and are interested in what they're up to WITHOUT having to resort to petty posturing in forest to get comments.

Hmm. You know I remember

Hmm. You know I remember when I first came here, I loved seeing all the "Thanks for playing with me." or "Thanks for helping me get my set back!" sort of blogs/screenshots. I think I'll keep an eye out from now on when I'm playing Queze, make an effort to so something special for extra nice deer. Smiling
Bylah's picture

Both Sithrim and Alecsander

Both Sithrim and Alecsander make awesome points.

If I wanted to drink tea and eat crumpets, I'd walk away from my computer. The idea of domestication isn't what TEF is about for me. Peace, maybe, and certainly nature - but nature is a chaotic force in and of itself.

I think that we do need deer that stir up the pot. They don't necessarily have to be EVIL, but they don't have to be calm and docile, either. Sithrim is right - we DO need chaos in our lives. Without it, life would fall into stagnation and be boring.

But as Alec has pointed out, sometimes, doing nothing is more frightening than doing something. If I wanted, Bylah could run around, pick fights, be an all around jerk...but he doesn't. He sits quietly, calmly, placidly. He waits. He plans. He plots.

That, alone, makes him far, far more dangerous and frightening than the deer that run around, deliberately starting problems.

I do agree, however, that all of the blatant violence and bloodshed and whatnot is getting boring. I think a lot of it is remarkably unnecessary. I'm not going to tell anyone how to play their character, but...

...to me, after a certain point, it becomes the boy that called wolf eventually.

The first time or so, yea, a character like that seems scary. Then? It just becomes annoying. Eventually, you just start ignoring it. If your rude/confrontational deer is constantly rude and confrontational? They become one dimensional and boring.

Sort of like how, if the forest was constantly calm/peaceful? It would become boring.

It's finding the BALANCE that's difficult.


Verycrazygirl's picture

My deer isn't evil... But he

My deer isn't evil... But he has more recognision than I like.
If I knew how exactly he got that, I'd offer a slight bit of advice.

I do know that when I joined he was a happy hyper playful deer, but he wasn't "flat" at that stage, just young and in development.
How he became to be who he is now all happened because of forest events. And all too often I try to adapt him to make others happy...

Seed's picture

I agree with Tera: the trick

I agree with Tera: the trick is not to not RP: the trick is to make characters whose personality is that they belong in the forest. According to Seed, for example, violence is useless -- you can get a bunch of deer piled, literally inside one another, in a tree. What on earth can antlers do? Besides the fact that's he's a nice little wuss. He's not perfect, and that's where part of RP is. But he belongs in the world he's in.
Zergarikiaka's picture

Such true words, Seed.

Such true words, Seed.
Pegasicorn's picture

Know what I miss?

Know what I miss? Sparring.
Not fights.

Sparring.

Yes, it's violence.
But it's not "bloodthirstiness".

(For the heck of it, I'll add that I have no deer who cause conflicts of any kind. They all share the trait of being peace-lovers since I find there's enough fighting outside our Forest haven.)
fayne's picture

Violence is needed in real

Violence is needed in real life. This is a game- no, it's not even a game, it's art. I feel like sinking a little lower in my chair every day when I see this happening with what was supposed to be a beautiful thing.
Aegle's picture

-raises hand in agreement- I

-raises hand in agreement- I try to not bring others into my rps unless they want too....
Ookani's picture

*shrugs* I don't see it. The

*shrugs*

I don't see it. The little bits of violence I see are mild and part of plot. It's the artwork that gets a bit gorey. But that's artwork.

Maybe it's cause I'm not with all the hip kids on their rp threads or I'm not on the right msn lists or chat rooms. But I don't see much at all.

Charlie is my upper/downer plot-deer. Zelig is my cuddle-wuggims/happy fun time plot deet. Coraa is my Real Doe.

So... try that? Just have a secret(ish) deer that has an upbeat attitude, backstory, etc, and if bad things happen let them deal with it in a positive way. "Oh, snap, I got attacked by so and so, but it's alright because the gods have granted me a new hoof made from stone, which is kinda cool." Or, I dunno, something less mary sueish than that, of course, it's 2am here and I can't think of a good response to getting one's leg chewed off.

But you get my idea. Having a balanced set of characters that are both uppers, downers, and neutral, lets you have more freedom to play how you feel that day.
squeegie's picture

I agree, I hate all the

I agree, I hate all the violence and hostility in the forest. It's not even a forest anymore, more like a battlefield. Ah well. :c
Sithrim's picture

Come on. A battlefield?

Come on. A battlefield?
That's exaggerating.


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Aegle's picture

I would actually agree with

I would actually agree with Squeegie on this one, Sithrim. Not all the time but sometimes it does feel like a battlefield. Not to say that I hate it or that I'm not guilty of contributing to violence. We all know I definately have contributed alot.
This may sound rude and stuck up and I'm sure alot of you are tired of hearing this but, the forest used to be SO peaceful. To the point that it does look like a battlefield compared to that time about two years ago. I think that to the older members it is very evident. (Me and Squeegie being two veteran members, I'm talking on my old account Echee and this account combined XD I've been here for 2 years +.)
Seed's picture

You know what just occured to

You know what just occured to me as a key difference between now and just a little less than 2 years ago, when I joined up?
It's not violence, per se. Because I remember some violence going on. And I remember drama, too. The difference was... it wasn't reliable. Now, it is. It's reliable, and because of its reliability, it's more boring than fun. Back then, this stuff would happen -- but you wouldn't expect it. It would be a surprise, not a "oh, is it Sunday already? Well, be back in a few days, where presumably events X, W, and Z will have happened. Ho, hum. Dramaz." And the worst bit? Events X,Y, and Z happen. Inevitably and dull-ly. Now the only thing surprising or interesting about most drama is how often it happens -- that's it. The creative value there is somewhat drained due to overuse for me, which I think may be the best argument against it I can think of. We're kind of trying too hard to be dramatic.

It was actually what I liked best about Virgil's Rut, which I really did enjoy: it was kind of novel, and in that way it was very interesting. I would love to try making other pre-planned "game-like" story events like that.

...I don't visit nostalgia like this often, but I'm just making me up some observations.

I agree...I really don't like

I agree...I really don't like all the violence here in the community and in the game. Plus lately the forest seems to be getting new characters that are just plain evil. Though I am one to talk since my deersona Lex is in fact a demon. But she is a good demon-she doesn't go around and be a jerk to everyone. She is in fact quite friendly and would try to make friends with others. More often than not she appears to be a normal doe and around that time she is an OOC deer reflecting on my emotions and thoughts. It's only when she is angry hurt or upset is when she'll morph into her demon form then the RP will start. She didn't do too much damage though since I introduced her in the game-just a little yelling at the Collector. They're on good terms now though.

My two other deer-Luis and Sora....are just regular deer. Luis is my OC here in the forest and my first deer. While he has a little bit of me in him, he is his own character and he is a very overall good guy. Sora is in fact Sora from Kingdom Hearts so his personality is actually the same as from his original game.
Verycrazygirl's picture

I've been wondering, if I

I've been wondering, if I should host another rut next fall...

Some players did brilliantly playing with it and following the rules, and some even got creative with it.

But there is also the fact it encourages sparring, which all too often comes across as "violent" these days...
And last time, I had to, and from time to time, still endure a lot of poop about it...

Seed's picture

...you know what I think? I

...you know what I think? I think we should work for the...the...I'm not sure what the word...reinstitutement, maybe?... of sparring as a nonviolent, game-like activity! Because I had to freaking pull a deer because I didn't feel safe that his favorite activity wouldn't be looked down upon as violent when it wasn't, really!

I may even want to draw up a petition or something!
Alecsander's picture

VCG- There is a difference

VCG-
There is a difference between a planned out sparring match and someone running around willy nilly spamming agry emotes at everyone they see.

I have no problems if two or more players maturely decide to hold a sparring match or a whole event centered around sparring. It can be fun. I know it can because I have done it multiple times with my TEF friends.

The problem is when no ground rules are set and some player runs about trying to attack every male in the forest because they're 'In the rut' and give no prior notice to explain their behavior. Then they come to the community site, see that people aren't happy with their behavior, and throw a giant fit because they're getting frowned at for their behavior.

I don't think someone should have to make a blog going: "Alright heres wahts going down!! I'm gonna enter the forest then deer A is going to run up and fight and then deer b is going to run away crying and blahblahblah".

But everyone should at least give a heads up of 'Hey, my friends and I are acting out a story we wrote/ role-playing. Feel free to watch. There might be some violence though, so please don't interfere, it's part of the story! Smiling "

or

"Hey my friends and I are holding the world championships of flower sparring. It's all in good fun so don't butt in please"
IoRez's picture

Interesting reading. I think

Interesting reading. I think Seed may be on the right track - if we have more organized sparring and less random acts of dicketry, maybe we could satisfy everyone.
Okay, probably not everyone but most of us. Anyway, I think it's a good idea.
Fledermaus's picture

Dicketry is my new favorite

Dicketry is my new favorite word.
xD
Seed's picture

Well, not just organized

Well, not just organized sparring -- but that's always fun -- but also reminding people it's OK to have fun, casual spars, and you can't always assume there's a real fight going on. That sort of thing. ...I may just have to do this, maybe call it like
"The Coalition for the Full Return and Acceptance of Non-Violent* Sparring"
...Or maybe something catchy and not stupid.

(* Where "violent" will be clearly defined as done with anger or malice, or without consideration for other player's feelings)
Pegasicorn's picture

Maybe instead of an actual

Maybe instead of an actual rut, it should just be about the sparring. I saw that most of the participants were in it for that, and not for creating fawns. I miss sparring for fun. When my first character (Scape) proved he didn't like fighting unless it was necessary, I gave my second character (Magnet) the trait of liking sparring.
EDIT: And this is why Pega shouldn't get distracted reading other posts before hitting the "post comment" button. |D
Alecsander's picture

Point Seed. I don't get

Point Seed.
I don't get angry when one of my mates runs up and starts play fighting with me for whatever reason or someone I know I'm neutral to. I know they're just being silly and having fun.

But..
When a player I know for a fact dislikes me for whatever reason does the same thing and constantly targets me for harassment it gets very old very fast.

Random acts of dickery in and out of forest are not appreciated. :/
Bylah's picture

The problem, as it's been

The problem, as it's been pointed out, is that there's really no way of knowing if two characters are just sparring or if they're fighting. There are a lot of people who don't use the comm page - and those that do don't check it 24/7, so it's hard to know whether or not someone is sparring, or doing an RP scene, or what have you.

It's sort of like people getting upset at someone who 'threatens' a new deer. It's hard to know who's new and who's not, and keeping up with pictos is rather difficult. I'd kill for the map function to be fixed, I really would - if it were, people could check who's where and maybe arrange a spot SPECIFICALLY for these spars/RP fight scenes.


bubblywums's picture

You won't be flamed, I feel

You won't be flamed, I feel the same way.
I don't like evil/mean/bloody characters but all I can do is ignore them. There are still nice deer here, it may take a little longer to find them.
Zergarikiaka's picture

Urgh, I just noticed a new

Urgh, I just noticed a new point.

The violent art:
I can't look at the pictures pages anymore without seeing something bloody or decaying! Violence violence and more violence, or characters that are naturally bloody all over or something.

Just a few months ago I personally was more or less smacked with a 'don't put up violent arts because there are younger players' rule. I actually had to take down a (in my opinion especially compaired to what I see now) very mild picture that, yes, involved blood, but the 'violence' was mostly implied. And it was only between my own characters; not making fight doodles with others.

I feel almost like it's hypocritical that I had to take it down then post it as a link with a warning for blood, when now I can't look at the 'recent posts' page and click an interesting looking thread and not see something bloody. >: