Wow. (Not Related To TEF)

First off, just wow. I can't believe this just happened...

I play TFM and have been a member since 2013. I loveee this game, but have drifted from it lately due to my anxiety/depression/ and other issues. I had recently met someone during a rp, and we were never exactly 'good' friends, but it was nice to have a friend. I had made many friends, but had to take a 4 month long break due to moving which left everyone not even knowing who I was which broke my heart. Anyways I did notice that Glitch had a lot of issues, which isnt something bad. She LOVES attention, and will make everyone else suffer or have to be unimportant in the rp while she gets all the glory, and if you dont do as she says in her utility rp room she bans you. She has changed a lot since I joined her rps, and no longer is an attention hog. Though she did call me an attention whore, because I decided to test something. Her character is littered in wounds, and enjoys watching as others smother her in attention. I went ona spare account and brought in just a random anime picture with wounds and tried to join, she said no because thats attention whoring. I just looked at her like "Right, because that's not what you're doing." She banned me. I than went onto my other account and completely just revealed her, and a lot of her friends were quiet upset in a way as they noticed what she was doing.

It was kind of cruel of me, but I wasn't gonna let it go on. Anyways over time we had a lot of fights over that crap, and twice she shut me out and unfriended me. And twice I came crawling back after all the awful words and back talking because I am stupid, and she was the only friend I had. Each time though, I let her know when she was doing something wrong - only when she was being very controlling over others/bullying them - I finally 'broke' her and she realized that she shouldn't have been doing that to her friends. I had hung out with her about 4 weeks ago, and than took a break all the way to this point. I message her, this is pretty much our conversation. - btw yes, today was awful for me and I thought maybe going and hanging out with her would be nice... - I may have seemed pushy, but she has done this to me about 4 times and I finally snapped... I am currently a bit teary eyed and upset.

- Warning, there is some adult language in this -

< [Glitchtiger] Floop
> [e2] [Glitchtiger] Who are you?
< [Glitchtiger] Satannnnnn
< [Glitchtiger] Umm... it's me Mccheww
> [e2] [Glitchtiger] I don't remember you, sorry.
< [Glitchtiger] O-oh.... well that's quiet a common thing I hear. Wait, we used to roleplay together and remember softwillows and such? We fought a lot, but we worked through things and crap
< [Glitchtiger] You used to make fun of my username and stuff. I mean Ring a bell at all??
> [e2] [Glitchtiger] No.
< [Glitchtiger] Glitch can I just talk to you in person? Where are you? ;_;
> [e2] [Glitchtiger] I don't remember you. I do not think I need to speak with you, either.
< [Glitchtiger] Glitch, I'm not dumb... you remember me but you have been trying to throw me out the window since forever. Now this is your way of doing it, thank you... you were my only friend, and obviously not a good one if you just 'magically' forget everything.
< [Glitchtiger] Thanks, after a day of being called names and feeling like a shit, my only friend not remembering made it real special. Thanks for the 'effort'.
> [e2] [Glitchtiger] ...
> [e2] [Glitchtiger] I would've thought about it, but now that you are rejecting it, I will not.
< [Glitchtiger] I am not rejecting anything Glitch, you are.
> [e2] [Glitchtiger] Well, please leave me alone. I am busy at the moment.
< [Glitchtiger] I was hanging out with you maybe about 4 weeks ago? I haven't been on because my anxiety has been awful...
< [Glitchtiger] Right, might as well dig myself in a deeper hole but your always busy glitch. Thanks, because you couldn't have said all that in a shittier way than you just did... ;.;
> [e2] [Glitchtiger] Well, I am trying to roleplay.
< [Glitchtiger] Even when I was doing crap, I made time to talk to you. But fine, go ahead and roleplay. Roleplaying is justa world where everything goes your way, and I guess around me thats not how it goes so you dont like it.
< [Glitchtiger] Go have fun roleplaying.
> [e2] [Glitchtiger] I am not making everything go my way.
< [Glitchtiger] My only question is why you are pushing me out, I know you know me/remember me, I just dont know why you push me out. Even after I have been there for you, done so much for you.
> [e2] [Glitchtiger] Please, leave me alone! I am whispering many people at once.


I don't know what to say... if I don't say anything everything will get blown aside and she might ignore me and that will be that. If i do say something she might still ignore me or just get pissed. What do i do...

tbh, she's not worth it. if

tbh, she's not worth it.

if she's like this to you, i can imagine her being like this to a lot of other people. she sounds like she's controlling and just trying to get rid of you. i know this from personal experience, and i learned quickly that these type of people are not worth having as friends. she sounds like someone who's super "popular" and needs the world to revolve around them, which is disgusting in my book. everyone is equal and should be treated as such.

even if you're not friends, they should be able to TALK to you PRIVATELY about certain things if they're feeling uncomfortable or need to address a certain situation. reading this, it sounds like your four month and four week disappearance has swamped them with other people and it's common to forget usernames and such. i wouldn't try to force yourself on them. maybe in the future, try to maintain better contact with them ? through skype or email ?

if this sounds insulting in any way, it's not meant to be, just passing on my advice and knowledge. i'm not the best at it, i admit.

Thanks Opeck, and during that

Thanks Opeck, and during that 4 week period I jumped on because there doing a bunch of events currently. Btw when she roleplays she actually steals other peoples characters and pretends that they are hers. Luckily my other friend Jinx helped me out, and I realized that she isn't worth it and that the relationship we had was toxic and meant nothing to her. I did leave it at this comment though, as I felt before we part ways that I should at least say my peace.

"You know glitch, I can't believe how self asorbed you are. I am sorry, but it's disgusting that you sit there and pretend you didn't know someone who ACTUALLY cared for you... especially when you know 100% who I am. I have sat there and struggled to keep our friendship together, and each time you let it crumble and left me to rebuild it. Everytime I had to suck up to you, or sit there and act like it was all my fault and that you were the victim... I lost friends because of you because they didn't want to be around you and felt that I changed around you. You broke any type of sympathy or affection I had towards you.. and it's disgusting how easily you threw it out the window. I have done everything for you, I have been there for you, I enjoyed being around you but obviously your own mirror was more important, roleplaying was more important. Well fine, goodluck because let me tell you.. karmas a b$%^*"

I did get a bit emotional and angry towards the end, and I did say some things that didnt need to be said. I just hope it might be a wake up call for her, if not than oh well.

i'm glad you had a friend who

i'm glad you had a friend who was able to help you see that they were toxic and not healthy for you in any way. i'm glad you were able to at least say your peace before finally leaving them. i'm proud of you for that, that takes a LOT of courage.

i really hope they realize what they're doing and at least clean up their act.

and you're welcome, i'm glad i could offer some help in some way.