Why do I even try?

Greyhorn's picture
I think I might leave tefc for awhile if not for good. Only after I've finished the requests. To me the community is not the same anymore. I know it's my fault I just don't really know how to start an rp nor am I good at rp. Most of the deer in game are role playing therefore its hard for me to find anyone to hang around. I hate this because I love the forest it's just not that much fun when you don't have anyone to hang out with. So many mixed emotions going through my mind right now.
Reyy's picture

Nothing wrong with taking a

Nothing wrong with taking a break. Smiling

Youre right, its not.
Its mostly based off of rp now which the majority of the community favors.

But give rping a chance, and the people too.
It will not only improve your sociability, but your writing style, too.
You will feel more welcome here if your characters are more involved with others.
This will allow you to connect with other players.

I think you should bend a little to receive a little.
Its hard, I know, and youve probably attempted it already, but keep at it.
Everyone here is very nice and willing to interact, but you have to reach out.
The community is not small like it used to be.
Otherwise we'll never know!

I also think someone you may want to talk to is Ben (http://endlessforest.org/community/node/49464), who plays the game OOCly and from what I see, doesnt seem to have a hard time interacting in-game.

To the comm. in general, being more aware of pictograms/players should help this issue, as there is no set etiquette for IC/OOC interaction.
It really depends on both parties individually.
Gloomycluster's picture

Definitely feeling the same

Definitely feeling the same way...
The community has changed quite a lot. Not in a good way, no one accepts you in a /group/ anymore and it's upsetting and you can't make friends without characters being angry or ignoring you.

Hope you feel better soon! Sending hugs! ♥


Taking a break never hurts

Taking a break never hurts anything. It will refresh your love for the game, if anything.
Also, I'm rarely ever roleplaying when I'm in the forest, and I would be happy to help you develop your RP skills here on the community! If you ever want to try, or hang around any of my deer, or even start a plot with someone. Let me know! I'm always interested. Skype me at TEFacer sometime!

I find the same thing, I have

I find the same thing, I have different characters that I roll play yet but in forest I just do what ever, I have never roll played in the forest it self never will I don't really see the point of it when you cant tell people you are roll playing especially if most players are not on the community and they cant tell that your RPing or not, and that just causes a whole bunch of silly drama on this community that isn't needed.. If fact as most have noticed I'm more active in the forest then here on the community. All I can say is do whats right for you, don't let others make your decisions and what ever you choose good for you. I hope you find your place where ever you choose.

TBH, even though my

TBH, even though my characters are RP.....very little RP actually goes on. They just sit there. No one wants to approach them unless it's just to sit....and if they approach, they get attacked or ignored and the attacks aren't even logged in the player's daily events. So I know how you feel. 99% of my RP goes on in IM, many of which aren't even TEF characters, though we're working on some offspring finding the forest and playing them there....God knows if it'll work if there's only two of us doing it.

So I know exactly how you feel. It feels pointless to be here these days.

I mostly just come on the

I mostly just come on the Community so see what people are doing there is too many player made rules and standards now about characters and how you play them it seems, why not just be free willed O-o and do what you want. It seems now that if some one posts they get like 1 or 2 replies and then nothing ever after that. then they are basically ignored. Like me for example ill post something and it ill go for months unnoticed half the time to the point that I just delete the post all together. Probably why im considering giving away all my other pictos sense their characters go unnoticed most of the time. Meh I dont know it just seems like now a days if your not in a certain popular group or been her for years you get pushed aside.

^^^^ Agreed 100%, and I've

^^^^ Agreed 100%, and I've been here for nearly 2 years and only 2 people talk to me on a regular basis.

Been here for about 3 years

Been here for about 3 years myself only on a different account. and sense then its been steadily getting worse and I'm not sure why.
I remember you Blue from your other account and on DA and i think your the only one that I actually talk to on here. I also Remember Greyhorn, though we never really talked much
Unplugged's picture

I'm sorry you all feel this

I'm sorry you all feel this way. Is there something I can do to make it better around here?
I'll try to find you in the forest. I think Ravynn said a lot of useful things.

I know and thanks but Ive

I know and thanks but Ive tried allot of those things and yet the same thing happens for some reason there seems to be allot of hostility in the community it seems. Also its ok in the forest i just do whatever i dot really care if im alone in the forest. The forest isn't about RPing to me, its about having fun doing what you want care free and peacefully. Even just sitting and listening to the sounds if fine for me. The community however...no offense to anyone this is not an insult merely my opinion of what ive seen, seems allot more hostile to those that don't fit in to the RP ways. But again thats only my opinion on how ives seen people react to different things. Im not saying its everyone either, its just the overall feeling of the community now, im not sure why. It feels pointless to post anything now sense 99% of the time no one replies.
Vala 's picture

Grey , and Arbo you are

Grey , and Arbo you are ALWAYS welcome to play with Vala , sometimes I feel the same too , I use to go more in the support forum , but now it's closed , you are my friends , if you feel to have a break just do it but please come back , I take a break from time to time , and Always happy to come back hug for you ♥ (maybe my comment isn't usefully ...WHO cares )

Vala loves you <3333!!!
" ~ Lady in Red ~ "

♥ ♥

Thanks Valla I've ran around

Thanks Valla I've ran around with you a few times on my deer Altibo. The mini deer with the sideways smiley face picto lol anyway thanks and If i ever do leave it will just be a break from the community O-o so look for a picto form one of my deer in forest Im most likely there. but I'l stay in the community now lol just wont be that active in replying to things that's all XD
Vala 's picture

Hug sweetie

Hug sweetie <33
" ~ Lady in Red ~ "

♥ ♥

Flyleaf's picture

I am not roleplaying . You

I am not roleplaying .
You can always come and hang around with my Fly .
He is very gentle Smiling
Avatar @ Sluggs Siggy @ Amazegenalo
Bouncing Fly by Mary13

You are always welcome to

You are always welcome to catch me on one of my OOC accounts and have fun! Even though I'm on my spell-helping account, you are always welcome to come at me!
To be honest, I sometimes feel similar. Even though I actually do RP, I might sometimes feel a little... Odd of it all, I guess?
Greyhorn's picture

Thank you guys for your

Thank you guys for your support . I've been apart of the community for a little over 4 years and I still don't have many friends. I do believe after I finish the requests I'm going to take a break.... I will look for you guys when I return. I will have Skyfall in forest every so often as I love the forest sounds, they are very soothing and a great retreat from real life and all the crap that's been going on lately. When I return I will try to rp with anyone that is willing to deal with my crappy rp skills. Thank you guys.
my DA
Siggy by Kokote

I wouldn't lump all RPers in

I wouldn't lump all RPers in that category, though.
So long as deer aren't rude, Fay will welcome just about anyone, so come on over and hang out if you see us!
Meadows's picture

Be where you are happy, and

Be where you are happy, and we will support you. I would love it if you hung out with me whenever you felt like it, it's so awesome seeing your name around <3

You should take a break if

You should take a break if you need and/or want to. We'll still be here when, or if, you decide to come back. I ALWAYS enjoy seeing you on the comm whenever you pop in & you are always welcome to interact with any of my chars, though some are nicer then others.
Breaks are always nice though ♥

Sig: Aihnna

Lott's picture

me, on so many levels. you

me, on so many levels. you basically described the problem i found myself in that distanced me from this site/game, and when i log on now, it's not even 15 minutes at max- because i'm not really an RPer or a very good one either.
i also don't have any people who are -already- my friends that play this, so it makes it difficult to get to know people and possibly start an rp.

since we have the same problem you're more than welcome to romp around with me whenever you want. it'd be nice to have a buddy.
Waning-Sun's picture

I've felt this too, Greyhorn.

I've felt this too, Greyhorn. Sort of feeling it now.



I would have more to say but I can't really at the moment. Just that if you need to take a break then go ahead, the community and the forest will be there. You are more than welcome to join any of my guys if you happen across them in game even if they are in someone's company. 9 times out of 10 they are just sitting there staring off into space enjoying their friend's company.
Avatar by Meadow. Siggy © Shey & Squeegie
Verdalas's picture

To be honest, there are so

To be honest, there are so many times I've been all "I'm leaving for good, waaah" but in the end I come crawling back, regardless of the fact in RP, my character is probably one of the most unlikely to have company.

It can be hard to tell the dedicated RPers from those who don't mind the occasional bout of OOC fun but my suggestion is to just be persistent. I find that most fawns are generally friendly and even some nameless can be good company. Look for deer that are hopping around rather than sitting together, because chances are they'll invite you to join them. From my experience, deer that are sitting together are either AFK or RPing privately. Heck, some might consider you a troll if you try to join in but that's a risk you have to take.

On a final note, if you ever post on the community site, make it known that you've enjoyed your time in the Forest as an OOC/IC experience. It gives other people an idea to your preferences and whether they can expect you to be such in future. Smiling

Also as a final note, Walter is up for chillaxing with your deer anytime. OOC or IC, new friends are great.
TehFloofeh's picture

You'll be thinking I'm a

You'll be thinking I'm a total noob as you dont know me,Nor I you. But If you decide to stay on TEF, You are welcome to hang around with my Deer Kaede. She hasn't got many friends,And so it could be nice for her If she had a friend,one that isnt just meet and flee. Ah well. Your welcome to meet up any time ^^
Lets be buddies and good ol' floofs. c:
The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.
Walt Disney.~
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HolyMaria's picture

I'm new in the community and

I'm new in the community and the game, but I've felt the same way you do.
I know that IC characters are just playing along with their personalities and that they don't have nothing personal against me, but I'm a still a person after all and sometimes I get bored or sad if someone is mean to me, in the real or in a virtual world. I mean, the forest it's an unique place, an unique game, and I know that the motions (taunt, fight, etc) were made with the intention to be used, but I don't think that was for making other people feel bad.
And please don't get me wrong, I love role playing in all levels, but I think I'd feel awkard being rude with new players or guests, or players who evidently doesn't know what I'd be doing. I think that it's not actually a game if the other person doesn't know your rules. I wouldn't like to make a player away from the forest.
But you know? the forest it's big, and I always find someone nice willing to spend time with me. Like Verdalas said, most of the fawns and guests are friendly
My character Kío it's sort of a RP character because I made a background story for her and stuff, but her personality is pretty much my personality, so I don't really know how much "role" she actually is hehe. You more than invited to hang around with her anytime you want :3

**nuzzles**