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I gave 10 years of my life to this game when I had nothing else ~ as pathetic as it sounds.. In saying that, however, I have things in my life now that take priority over TEF. A healthy and active relationship, a multitude of pets that take up most of my time if I'm not in the city with my wife or we're not gaming together on her off time. Rarely do I get to sit and pour myself fully into TEF like I did 4 years ago (and for the 10 previously), and as much as it saddens me, I'm glad it's happened while the game is slowly dying by the creators and how small the community has become. I find myself writing lore and stories of my own characters, meeting each other and adventuring with each other. I don't rely on anyone else or expect it from anyone else anymore. I think most players are comfortable in their circles and don't feel a need to expand it or open it up fully, and that's ok (truthfully branching out and trying to expand has barely ever worked for me). Everyone is owed comfort and security. I think my place within TEF has slowly been leaking out and eventually I feel like my time completely will come to an end. I enjoy writing for my characters, but I dont need TEF for that if I feel like I am doing it all within my own head. I've always loved writing, even as a young teenager.
YUCK ANYWAY that was a tldr; tef is slowly dying no matter how much we'd like to believe it isnt and im glad it's happening now when I have things to live for outside of it and am not 'prisoned'
i hate how short their lives
ive had sO many girls pee on everything tho (mei, the one who i swear should've been a boy) did it a lot.. honestly all of mine do it, even if it's just teeny tiny amounts, but the only one that never did in any capacity was Grace/'Mum'. Bless her i could have her out and never worry about pee streaks on the furniture
they're honestly the worst sigh ;; and like you said they're not sick? the cancer is so bad and grows so large but they're still 'normal' in every way except the lump and it's so heartbreaking seeing them lose weight and have trouble walking (when it gets large) and it's only because of that, they still have spirit and spunk and appetite siGH half of my girls have had to be put to sleep because of that cancer specifically and i hate it because besides that (and the weight loss they're fine)
i for sure want to get a couple boys when we have no more girls left, really give them my attention and hopefully experience what everyone talks about ;; two of my boys came from a pet store (the same one we got this new girl plus a couple other girls) and they were love bugs but a little squirmy to hold. Romeo ('Dad') still 'stress shit' (there's nothing worse smelling you cant change my mind) when being held 2 years after we brought him, and PROBABLY MY FAULT NOT GIVING ENOUGH FOCUSED ATTENTION but he was so so sweet when he wasn't being held, would come over to your hand and push his fat head under (he was a dumbo) and just lay there with his eyes closed waiting for pats. GOD I CANT WAIT TO HAVE JUST 2 BOYS LIKE THAT
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EXACTLY, SAME. instead of not
ALKDSN YOUR WIFE THOUGH. so many people talk about the tails being gross but i never got that. like ik it has no fur but.. it's c u t e r that way. and then yep they all get over it >u>
NO WAY THEY SCENT MARKED? i find the boys do it less once they're comfortable 100% in their home. and po never does it because i think he wants to avoid upsetting peep by spreading his own scent on the territory POOR BABY
but i thought girls just. DIDN'T. my illusion is destroyed.
mei was the manliest doe of all
the weight loss is such a heartbreaker yeah. 3; seeing them slow down and get tired. I'm 'lucky' that the tumors my boys had were either not visible or super tiny. i got less time with them but it's like. NOT AS VISUALLY JARRING? it's so sad to see it just drain them SIGH
but it's still like.. well, they get to live a good loved life even while they've got those tumors, or infections, or w/e pops up in them
OOOOOOOOHGKLNASDLK I ONLY HAD /ONE/ RAT WHO WOULD FEARSHIT NO MATTER WHAT AND IT WAS THE WORST THING EVER. but damn it's a good defense mechanism because even if i was a hungry predator i would just put them down and leave because it really is that bad
po and peep i can hold for a lllong time as long as i'm petting them but once i stop they're off to cause trouble. po will sleep under my hair sometimes though. ONCE THEY'RE OLD N FAT i'm sure they'll settle for sleeping on my shoulders more than anything else
actually the other day po was having a sweet moment bruxing curled up against my neck
and he ruined it
by shitting on me
and that moment was over
most of my rats 'litter' trained themselves automatically but N O T THIS ONE
All my ratlings were
my rats barely get to the 2
YES SCENT MARKED! All my girls have done it except for sweet gracie, never even 1 little drop ;; mei was notorious for it, but all except 1 do it when they're out. That's why when i hear people say "get boys if you dont want pee streaks!" im like honey you've got a big storming
i've only had romeo who fear shit when being held (besides new arrivals), even 2ish years later after getting him he still did it when being held despite loving attention when he was stationed on the ground. He was a giant fucking man baby tho (i loved him sm, the sweetest rat ive ever had)
LMFOAMF me with all mine who do
I used to take mei out with me and she'd hang on my shoulder still (or in my hoodie pocket when it was sunny out - she hated the sun in her face) and she'd never go to the bathroom on me ;; even when we were out for like half an hour?? she was the only one tho, all the others shit or piss embarrassing cant take them anywhere. they're super easy to litter train in their cages i was astounded?? i had them on carefresh for over a year before we got a big cage with fleece lining and i put homemade litter pans on each level and they just taught themself??? so damn smart
one day i will only have 2 and be those youtube rat parents who teach them tricks :triumph:
kimi; most of mine have been as well.. my first was born and raised in a cigarette filled room of a girl who bred rats for her own snakes.. the best rats ive had have been the ones ive gotten who were bred primarily for snake food tbh, all the others that i bred or got from breeders selling for pets havent been nearly as sweet and laid back?? which id think would be the opposite
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3: OH NO. god i've gotten to
I CAN'T BELIEEEVE. i've been lied to all these years. girls are trouble too..
ALKDN POOR ROMEO. maybe he was.. s c a r e d of h e i g h t s
or just body contact. sometimes they're ridic for no fathomable reason
MEI SEEMED LIKE SUCH AN ANGEL
most of my rats haven't gone to the bathroom on me, oR OUTSIDE OF THE CAGE IN GENERAL? BB used to pinchbite my toes when he had to go and i'd put him back in the cage, let him do his thing and then take him back out. but these two for some reason are shameless gross little men. or maybe just too lazy to move. dISgUstED
I TEACH ALL MY BOYS TO SPIN. also any of my single male mice. idk why. i can't seem to teach them to do anything else though SIGH
Your fur babies are always so
i've only gotten to 2 years
girls are such trouble, and they're super active and want to go go go and arent that cuddly (except for mei), but they're so soft
once my girls have settled in they usually dont go out of their cage either (except if i just wake them up and take them out), otherwise i never see any poop out on the ground when they're popcorning and running around the lounge room bless
lacie; thank you ♥
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HONESTLY KEEP US UP TO DATE
i've held an adult female rat once. OnCe. they're so tiny and so soft and smell.. so not like musky cornchip boys. smh..
I HEAR SOME OF THEM SMELL LIKE GRAPE SODA? IS THIS ANOTHER LIE I'VE BEEN FED?
i'm 'lucky' that they go in a particular corner (OR ON ME) while outside of the cage but i'm also like... Why is it. A Window Sill? stop. not a good corner. can't put a litter box there
ALSO I CAN'T GET OVER HOW HANDSOME YOUR BOY IS. HE GREW UP, HE'S A BIG STRONG TINYLEGGY MAN NOW
I WILL! She's a silvermane
GRAPE SODA? LMFAOMF none of mine have how unfair :'( but yeah their smell is so lowkey? ESPECIALLY being on fleece and not smelling like carefresh anymore bless
A WINDOW SILL LMOFMA are your boys neutered? i probably would like to get mine done when/if i get boys but im sure it'd be hella expensive.. i priced a girls spay and it was over 200 dollars :sleepy:
AKLJGSD;L THANK YOU :'( we're always getting compliments of his coat and i swear every time we go out with him i hear at least once "oh that's a big dachshund" or "is that a dachshund?" someone whispers to whoever they're with and then they respond "no it's too big" LISTEN HE'S A BIG ONE, HE EVEN HAS WEBBED PAWS LIKE DOXIE'S DO
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auuuUUUUGH I LOVE
and i love REXES. and rex-ishes.. but i have alllways wanted a hairless rat jfc. one of these days
SOME PEOPLE SWEAR BY THE SODA, that when they get rly excited or really happy, they give off a grape soda smell. one of my boys SOMETIMES SLIGHTLY smelled like maple syrup but that's the least musky it got. BUT IT'S NOT BAD ANYWAY RLY
noPE NO NEUTERED BOYS. costs around $130 dollars a rat here and i'd rather.. save that for possible vet trips. 200 DOLLARS HOLY SHIOTHSLKFDNL. YOU FIGURE IT'D BE LESS than a dog but ... B a r e l y
HIS COAT COLOR IS AMAZING. tbh i wasn't sure if he was a dachsHIE but ONLY BECAUSE- no offense i love dachshunds- BUT HE'S MORE 'HANDSOME' THAN THE USUAL ONES? they have rly slim pointy faces and he's got a nice MANLY MAN FORM
he just buff dach
when i was googling around at
it would probably cost the same here and i'd rather keep it for more pressing stuff too for the future sO guess i gotta get used to them draggy sacs
we're so blessed to have a handsome boy besides his pigeon legs, im just hoping his genetics and having a bit longer legs than some of the others will play a factor in him not getting that spine issue they're notorious for sweats im super fixated on keeping him fit and muscled/toned and wanting him a tiiiiny bit under the 'perfect' weight to keep as much weight off his back im constantly paranoid and worried about it
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Your girls are ADORABLE.
It's funny when they find those bones. My dog likes to hide them and save em for later, but when my rats come out to explore they find them pretty quick and it's hilarious watching them drag it back into their cage. ;-;
GOD NICE. i'd believe her
i've heard of some vets doing it for like $30 but that's in the US and i can barely get an appointment that ends in 'nothing's wrong idk lol go home and come back if it gets worse' for less than $70 AROUND HERE SO. I DOUBT I'LL BE FINDING ThOSE deals..
OALSKDN I NEVER NOTICED HIS PIGEON LEGS but i'd be scared about back issues too. i bet as long as he stays MUSCLY he'll be okay. god some of the chubby dachshunds i see outside. how can something be so adorable but so sad at the same time..
I’m at the Aquatics Experiece
KIMI IM SO JEALOUS :sob:
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I won a 5gallon tank so guess
KIMI!! i want so many pics
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I wish my girls would eat raw
I'm happy I work at a place that actively encourages raw feeding.
it took us a little bit for
honestly i was scared to watch it too, there's a few doco's i want to watch but im scared to because i dont want to know but it was so informative for me and literally changed my life and perception of things, and it really was the beginning of me looking into things that i never really thought about beforehand too much (like commercial pet food, spaying and neutering far too early amONG some other stuff that would probably be 'taboo' :eyes: ) Definitely give it a try one day when you're feeling brave, kimi!
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That gets me too. Processed
Have you seen that report that's been shared around recently about the 2 year raw food study? Found it very encouraging myself.
it gets me so much NO I
NO I HAVENT :'( pls share
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Link to the Facebook post
ew bumping my own stuff,,
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I wish I could get my pets on
I still do have some issues
we get sO many compliments about hershey's coat colour, shine and smoothness that im just like pls ask me what his diet is so i can tell you it's raw but they never do :pensive: only compliments
you're doing the best you can kimi, and the fact you have that mindset when it comes to raw is amazing THE LEGEND JUMPED OUT doing the absolute best you can for them (and wanting to go beyond despite impossibility) is better than a lot do for their pets ♥
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so excited for you! i hope he
@greassygrace; kaoori
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he loVES the tripe supermix so much im surprised.. i thought his fussy arse would have made it near impossible for me to feed him it but im so happy :relieved: no pulling teeth here
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Really glad Hershey's doing
Really hope you can find a solution to your teeth issues. They're never fun. ):
Aw fam :c sorry for all the
one day I'll get off my ass
I also have like 5 experimental chars idk what I'm doing with and should throw them at u lol
ty for all the comments! BEN
BEN YES PLS throw them all at me :triumph:
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THE CARPET CURSE IS
Please do take your time coming back everything's been waiting just fine so it can wait some more -3-
I relate way too much to that
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been wondering about lack of
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good to see you around again!
HOORAY!! Looking forward to
Welcome back! ♥
thank you everyone ♥
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so great to see you around
I've missed you and your chars
except shahla ofc
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Aye, welcome back. (:
welcome back ♥
good to see you back ♥
you guys are great ♥
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Glad to see you back & glad
Formerly ocean.
thank you so much! it's
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hi ♥
so happy for you ♥ !!