Ok so I'm actually a sort of old member to The Endless Forest. I used to play it a long time ago but as you might be able to see, I haven't logged in in about two years, and I never really used the website much. Recently I've been missing it so I decided to start playing it again. I've been refreshing myself on forest etiquette and I think I've got the hang of most things again, but I've been having a few issues.

First off, is it considered rude to lay down next to someone? If so why? I bow and greet everyone but every time I lay down next to someone they immediately move away a little and lay back down or they just leave completely. At first I thought it was coincidence but it happens every time. Sometimes its groups, sometimes it is solo deer.

Second off, when is it considered rude to cast spells? I know not to do it on mini deer and I try to avoid doing it on deer wearing holiday items (am I right in doing that?) but even on deer wearing nothing I often get negative responses. Why is this? Personally I love when people change me but I seem to be one of few that does.

Thanks a ton!

EDIT: Also I know some people have more than one deer. How do you do that?