Another little IRL update (concerning my job and money)

quadraptor's picture
Hey guys, just wanted to tell you what happened today. It will kind of affect a few of you...

I have the day off and was planning on doing a bunch of stuff, going to church, ect. Well before I woke up, my work called. 'Wolfie' had called (scroll down on this topic until you see a long post I wrote to see who I am talking about. It starts with "Sorry for bringing up an old topic, but....") asking me to work a 9 hour day today. I have to work a 9 hour day tomorrow too (with him for most of my worktime too) so when Mom came home she said "Oh you had a missed call from work."

I said, "I really don't want to go in today.", and she said alright. I did a few chores and found out that he called three more times within the next few hours. Finally I called back and got one of my coworkers who is a nice guy, who said that Wolfie was at lunch. I told my friend to say that I'd be busy for the rest of the day (he said that one of my other coworkers called in sick today).

I've been working with this company for about 5 years, and quite literally 99% of the time when they call, I'll come in. There were only a few circumstances when I would say no. So they see me as dependable.

One of the few times I said no was Wolfie calling a while back, and he got infuriated with me that I wouldn't come in on my off day. "This is bull****! Why do I have to deal with this ****!", he said on the phone. And as my mom has told me before, "It's okay to say no, it's your off day"

Well anyway, today my mom was pretty appalled that he called our house four times. She said that I shouldn't be stressing over work when I've got more important things going on - my last year of college.

So she proposed that when I go in tomorrow, if Wolfie is angry at me for not coming in, to quit my job.

She said that she and my brother would help me with money, and that way I could focus on my school work for the next 8 months.

So I don't know what will happen. This might be my last week working with this store, but if so, then I'll be glad to be finally rid of Wolfie. However, it'll mean that I'll have significantly less money to spend since I won't be making any for 8 months.

That means that I won't be able to spend any more money on commissions and things from you guys. I hate to do it but I need to cancel the commission I ordered from Quamar, and it also means that I might not be able to order more prints from Trigger_Mortis (that's tentative because I may still do that and count that as my christmas presents).

But anyway I just wanted to let you guys know that today has been stressful and things might be changing after this week.

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Update -

Alright, mission accomplished. It worked out pretty well, too.

The store manager wasn't there today, but instead one of the other managers that I really like, so I told him that I was planning on quitting. I went ahead and mentioned to him that Wolfie was part of the problem, and said, "If I can't deal with him today, then I'm planning on walking out early, if that's alright with you."

My manager said, "No problem."

So I went to work, started cutting up fruit and stuff. Wolfie walked in and immediately started talking about yesterday. "We're playing catch-up today since yesterday was a fiasco.", he said, "And for the record, if you think you're in trouble about yesterday, you're not, knowwhati'msayin?"

Well, I kept my mouth shut. Any time he spoke (except a few instances when he asked if he was in the way or such that was work-related), I didn't reply to him.

One of my other coworkers walked in and had a box of green tea that he sat on a table. Wolfie later walked in and picked it up, asking, "Holy crap what is this?"

I didn't respond, and immediately he asked, "Hey what is this?" Same deal, I ignored him. "CHRISTOPHER!", he shouted.

I looked up and said "What?" "What is this?" "I don't know, it was something M--- brought in."

Then later on he blocked me into my little cutting area by putting one of our rolling carts in the way so he could prep some corn. That whole time he kept saying, "You really should be mad at [the guy who called in sick yesterday] and not me.", and "I was hoping I could listen to the Saints game while I was back here.", and "Hey you like that new age stuff, right? I had a neat dream I need you to interpret for me.", and a few other things.

At one point Customer Service called us, and since I couldn't get out due to Wolfie blocking the way, he walked over and answered the phone, mumbling a few F-words and other things as he stomped away. He hates it when people call our department.

Eventually he stopped cutting corn and I was finally able to get out of the cutting area I was stuck in. So I put out all the fruit I had cut up (which was a good bit of it), and then walked over and told my manager that I couldn't deal with him anymore. My manager nodded and said, "Don't worry about it, I'll tell him that I sent you home."

So I clocked out and came home. Never said a word to Wolfie that I was leaving. I worked for 3 hours and just could not handle listening to him complain all day.

Tomorrow not only will my produce managers be there, but the store manager will be too, so I will stop by work and let them know that I'm quitting. I have decided that I will give them two weeks if they need it, but I will make a stipulation that I don't want to work with Wolfie any of those days. (Wednesday I will see him but he should be leaving by the time I come in, and one of my managers will be there so it shouldn't be a problem).

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Kaoori's picture

This is your last year of

This is your last year of school too, and it's okay to concentrate on that. And there's no reason to stay in a job if it's affecting you that badly, either.


Good luck.
quadraptor's picture

It's just this see-saw of "I

It's just this see-saw of "I like having money to spend" with "It's not that bad of a job" versus "I just can't deal with this guy anymore" and "I hate dreading going to work on days that he's there"

I guess it'll be a good lesson for me to slow down my spending, too. I'm pretty bad with money.
Pegasicorn's picture

Even though it means less

Even though it means less money, it sounds like that guy causes you way too much stress. Taking out that stress sounds healthier.
Too bad it's not him that would be leaving that place since it sounds like he doesn't deserve to work there as much as you do.

Geez, what an idiot.

Geez, what an idiot. Seriously, I read both posts and Wolfie is just a... very specific individual >_>
I would love to tell him what I think about his childish behavior... Damn, I admire how patient you are towards him, though every patience has its limits.
However I would suggest you not quiting your job yet. It's the last year of your school and I bet you can find a better job when you finnish it. Though I guess learning and cooperating with Wolfie at the same time can cause a lot of needless stress to you...
But if you really can't stand it anymore quit. Just think about it some more, it's quite an important decision after all.
trigger_mortis's picture

Aww, Quad! I'm so sorry life

Aww, Quad! I'm so sorry life is so stressful for you! I have to say that I completely understand what you're going through though. It's not fair that they should expect you to just drop your life and come to work for them, especially on days when they know you're off.

It is definitely a hard decision though, and I know how conflicted you must feel. Just know that we're here to support you however we can. It is important to focus on your last year of school, and you shouldn't feel guilty that you have to sacrifice some things in order to do that.

<3 We're here for you Quad, through thick and thin!
SentrySeb's picture

Give up on life and I'll eat

Give up on life and I'll eat your brains. ;;.

<3





ocean's picture

Good luck with whichever way

Good luck with whichever way it goes, Quad! <3
Emerald's picture

Seriously, that's so immature


Seriously, that's so immature of him. e.e
Personally, I'd tell him that I'm not going out of my way just to please him, and if he wants someone to always be there, he can go find someone else or another job. I don't think you should quit just because of this guy, I mean, don't let him get in you way. =D
Buuuut, if he truly won't leave you alone, then you might want to leave for awhile. Extra stress on top of your studies can not be healthy.
Best wishes~ =3

quadraptor's picture

The decision so far is that

The decision so far is that this is my last week working. I still have a few options tomorrow, though - leaving as soon as Wolfie starts **** with me vs. staying and getting $40 on my last paycheck. Also trying to decide whether to let Wolfie know I'm quitting or let him figure it out when I don't show back up to work in October.

Anyway, I will be talking to the store manager tomorrow and letting him know that I'm quitting. My department managers won't be there tomorrow so I'll have to wait until Monday to tell them.
SentrySeb's picture

Hmm.. You can tell wofie off

Hmm.. You can tell wofie off and get money. I choose option 1. ;p





quadraptor's picture

the problem is that he

the problem is that he doesn't shut up all day. Mom really is the one that suggested "giving him my apron" as soon as he starts complaining that I didn't come in today, so I might do that.

I'd feel like I was letting my managers down, though, but they'll know that I'm planning on working Monday and Wednesday as I'm scheduled. I just don't know if I can deal with Wolfie any more, especially after him calling our house four times today.
SentrySeb's picture

Option two then. Kick his

Option two then. Kick his bottom.





You know when you do come in

You know when you do come in on your off days as a boss I would be more than greatful.But when you said no and he lashed out like that in a way I don't think thats any way to treat an employee who has sacrificed their time before.I think your mom is right,if he starts blabbing his mouth quit.You do not need negativity in your life.Any way keep your head up keep smilling and trust the Lord.
SentrySeb's picture

Not everyone believes in

Not everyone believes in that.

-cough-me-cough-





quadraptor's picture

Mhmm, I think there's a

Mhmm, I think there's a difference between being asked to come in on my off day and being expected to come in. Wolfie definitely thinks that if he calls I have to work that day.

Ah well, my mind's made up on it. I think Mom and my brother will take care of me as far as finances, and I do need to get a lot of stuff cleaned and straightened up at home. My room is a wreck because I'm not home that much.

I believe quad is a Christian

I believe quad is a Christian and if I am wrong I'm sorry,and if anyon finds that offensive I'm sorry but that's what I believe in.



Quad--You shouldnt be expected to
SentrySeb's picture

It's fine, I just freak out

It's fine, I just freak out cause a lot of people I know don't really mention it, so.. Yea. <3





trigger_mortis's picture

Quad, before you actually

Quad, before you actually tell the managers that you're quitting, please try to talk to them first and make it known that if nothing is done about this 'Wolfie' situation, then you will seriously consider leaving. I know that you (being a kind and thoughtful person) will see this as a sort of blackmail, but don't be afraid to use that power.

If your managers want you to stay (and it seems like you're the kind of worker that they wouldn't want to lose no matter what) then let them know that if they want you, they need to do something about this guy. You shouldn't feel like your only options are to leave or suffer. Consider option C: the managers make this guy smarten himself up.
quadraptor's picture

it seems like there isn't an

it seems like there isn't an option C, because Wolfie has gotten in trouble before (forging my manager's name, even though it wasn't a legal document), and all they did was slap him on the wrist. He didn't learn any kind of a lesson, and knowing my managers, I already know they won't do anything about him whatsoever.

Even my department manager laughed when he heard that Wolfie was saying things about me while I was away from Field Camp, and simply said, "Just ignore him."

I appreciate the suggestion but it wouldn't do any good. I'm going to take my mom and brother up on their offer, I think it'll be better in the long run.
trigger_mortis's picture

Well, as long as you're

Well, as long as you're happy, then I'll be happy for you.

Good luck Quad. <3
quadraptor's picture

Mhmm, I was thinking about it

Mhmm, I was thinking about it and I feel like it's the right decision.

I'll keep you guys updated as to how it goes tomorrow. I'm a little nervous about going to work though.
SentrySeb's picture

I'm here to root you on!

I'm here to root you on! <3





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<33333333 good luck
Redkora's picture

I hope everything went as

I hope everything went as well as it could, given the circumstances. Take care. *Nuzzles*
[pixel deer by Aldebaran]
quadraptor's picture

The official plan now is,

The official plan now is, first, to leave here a little early so I can chat with the store manager about quitting (not mentioning Wolfie whatsoever, just saying I need to focus on school), and then enduring today and not letting Wolfie know that I'm quitting.

Then tomorrow before school maybe coming in and talking to my department managers about it.

So I'm going to have a hell of a day but at least it'll be the very last day having to work with him for 6 hours on a Sunday (which has been just about every Sunday for me). If Wolfie asks what I was doing yesterday I'm going to tell him "None of your damn business."

You go Quad !!!

You go Quad !!!
trigger_mortis's picture

Good luck dealing with the

Good luck dealing with the annoying so-and-so!
quadraptor's picture

Alright, mission

Alright, mission accomplished. It worked out pretty well, too.

The store manager wasn't there today, but instead one of the other managers that I really like, so I told him that I was planning on quitting. I went ahead and mentioned to him that Wolfie was part of the problem, and said, "If I can't deal with him today, then I'm planning on walking out early, if that's alright with you."

My manager said, "No problem."

So I went to work, started cutting up fruit and stuff. Wolfie walked in and immediately started talking about yesterday. "We're playing catch-up today since yesterday was a fiasco.", he said, "And for the record, if you think you're in trouble about yesterday, you're not, knowwhati'msayin?"

Well, I kept my mouth shut. Any time he spoke (except a few instances when he asked if he was in the way or such that was work-related), I didn't reply to him.

One of my other coworkers walked in and had a box of green tea that he sat on a table. Wolfie later walked in and picked it up, asking, "Holy crap what is this?"

I didn't respond, and immediately he asked, "Hey what is this?" Same deal, I ignored him. "CHRISTOPHER!", he shouted.

I looked up and said "What?" "What is this?" "I don't know, it was something M--- brought in."

Then later on he blocked me into my little cutting area by putting one of our rolling carts in the way so he could prep some corn. That whole time he kept saying, "You really should be mad at [the guy who called in sick yesterday] and not me.", and "I was hoping I could listen to the Saints game while I was back here.", and "Hey you like that new age stuff, right? I had a neat dream I need you to interpret for me.", and a few other things.

At one point Customer Service called us, and since I couldn't get out due to Wolfie blocking the way, he walked over and answered the phone, mumbling a few F-words and other things as he stomped away. He hates it when people call our department.

Eventually he stopped cutting corn and I was finally able to get out of the cutting area I was stuck in. So I put out all the fruit I had cut up (which was a good bit of it), and then walked over and told my manager that I couldn't deal with him anymore. My manager nodded and said, "Don't worry about it, I'll tell him that I sent you home."

So I clocked out and came home. Never said a word to Wolfie that I was leaving. I worked for 3 hours and just could not handle listening to him complain all day.

Tomorrow not only will my produce managers be there, but the store manager will be too, so I will stop by work and let them know that I'm quitting. I have decided that I will give them two weeks if they need it, but I will make a stipulation that I don't want to work with Wolfie any of those days. (Wednesday I will see him but he should be leaving by the time I come in, and one of my managers will be there so it shouldn't be a problem).

I hope that by leaving after his incessant talking and complaining that he learns a lesson, but I know he won't. I pray that my store will have some peace and progress in the future, I really do. It is a good company and there are great people there.

I just can't deal with Wolfie for another moment.
trigger_mortis's picture

Good for you Quad. I'm

Good for you Quad. Smiling

I'm really glad for you that one of your good mangers was there to be helpful, it makes a big difference when you don't have to deal with that on top of the other guy.

Good luck when you talk to the other managers, and I hope that dealing with them will be just as easy as dealing with the manager today. You deserve the peace of mind knowing that you don't have to go into a workplace with such an idiot, and this time away from work will let you focus on your school while keeping your sanity.

Keep your chin up Quad, you're doing what's right for you!
Seed's picture

Good for you, Quad. Quitting

Good for you, Quad. Quitting a job is never easy, but I think that having a solid decision is always good.
quadraptor's picture

Update #2 - I ran by work

Update #2 -

I ran by work this morning before school and talked to my produce manager. He said he thought something must have happened with Wolfie when he found out that another worker was called in to do my shift and she left a note saying that I had quit. So we discussed this week - I will still be working today and Wednesday, I think we decided that Wed will be my last day. He knew that I would come in and talk this morning, I made him a promise that if I was going to quit he would get notification (I had an incident a while back where a different coworker [I'll call him 'Jose'] was coming in when I was leaving for the day. As I passed by him, I said, "Hey I'm gone.", and he took that to mean "Hey I'm quitting.", so he went and told everyone and my manager that I had quit. I promised my manager that he would get a notice from me if I ever quit.)

So anyway, I'll be heading into work at 3:00 today, no Wolfie today so it'll be a good day. And then Wednesday he should be leaving when I come in but it'll be my last day.

I forgot to mention that my manager is going to have a discussion with Wolfie and the store manager about all this. Even he is getting tired of Wolfie's attitude. They finally made him cut his hair over the weekend, and hopefully they can do something about his clothing and attitude.
trigger_mortis's picture

It's nice to hear that

It's nice to hear that they're taking notice of how much of a pain this guy is. Maybe they'll be able to solve the problem by dealing with him, and when you feel ready, you could return to work without having to worry about him.

I'm glad that you made it clear that you would give them notification and have agreed to work at least until Wednesday. I'm sure they appreciate it.

I still continue to wish you good luck Quad, and I'm glad that we're all here to support you!
quadraptor's picture

Wonderful...they called me in

Wonderful...they called me in once again, this time my manager (the one who Wolfie forged his name) called so I had to call back. And of course when Produce picked up the phone, it was Wolfie.

So another off day that I have go to into work, at least it'll be the last time. I was supposed to take Brandy to the vet today but I had to cancel it because the other coworker who called in on Saturday didn't show up again. I'm working a 1-8 today, so that'll be about 3 hours with Wolfie once again.

I really don't know what to do today, how to act around him. And I have to go in an hour.
ClosetMonkey's picture

If Wolfie gives you trouble,

If Wolfie gives you trouble, my best advice is either saying something witty back at him or walking away. I hope he gets fired or something. No one should be picking trouble with you ^^.

Good luck with work and such.
Check your closet. I might be in there x3


quadraptor's picture

Alright guys, today went

Alright guys, today went alright, had to listen to another half-assed apology from Wolfie but i decided to play his little game and keep my cool today. So we chatted a little bit, i told him about my coyote vision and also a little about where i was going for my trip, stuff like that. He really behaved today.

Then I checked Facebook. I removed him as a friend on there but I'm still on a little group he made that he invited me to where you vent and rant about stuff.

And he wrote some pretty nasty stuff. I think it's directed toward my coworker who called in on both Saturday as well as today (which I found out today that he is now in the hospital).

So please be warned, but I'm going to post his words up here for you all to see. It has a lot of cussing in it, so just be warned alright? I feel like it needs to be posted so you all can get a little glimpse of what I have been dealing with.


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Fuck it all...I ain't gonna give up..
Fuck it...I'm sick of work...I'm sick of it all...I change my look to rile things up a lil and what the holy fuck do i get...HAHA...jackmotherfuckin' shit...Of all the fuckin weekends for shit to blow up in my face, it had to happen...Too much BULLSHIT! From now on, I'm takin my flask of Bombay to work and there ain't jack motha fuckin shit no one can do...Fuck rehab when ya gotta work with a buncha whiny ass bitches like I do... at least I can depend on one Cat up there...they made yestaday a lil betta... I could give a shit Johnny Gastritis if you got kidney stones...get ya bitch ass to work...I've worked in the past week with PNEUMONIA!!!! yea you read it right....I can work even with my heartrate goin through the fuckin roof and you're pissing blood and don't even have the Goddamn comnmon courtesy to call Produce when you can call some lowlife filthy twat on the fuckin front end...FUCK YOU!!! You show your elderly ass to work tomorrow, I will personally bring your ass to pain...I can play up ol' sports injuries to make your ass work...I'm not someone you wanna piss off...I can be your best friend....or your worst motherfuckin nightmare...the cards are dealt, now make ya choice...

Fuck the rookies at work...only the strongest survive this bitch...I've got the scarz and attitude to match...the Cat came through and hopefully The Gambler gets back on board...Feel sorry for some people but my sympathy only goes so far...sorry dude, you fucked up and I'm gonna see to it personally you don't come back...You fucked with the wrong nigga this time...


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Pegasicorn's picture

That [word omitted] should be

That [word omitted] should be fired. Period.
quadraptor's picture

I'm very tempted to print it

I'm very tempted to print it out and show it to my manager. I think he has some serious anger problems and quite frankly I don't appreciate him calling my managers and coworkers names. People cannot help to be who they are. Nobody chooses their physical appearance.

I'm sure my other coworker never wanted kidney stones, and here Wolfie is criticizing him for it, telling him that he has to come to work. He obviously had a problem with me since he told people that I wanted a sex change. He's said things about one of my managers who is older and has a hard time bending over and picking up stuff.

For ****'s sake dude, give it a rest!

There are several Zen teachings that say that you cannot change the way people are, but rather see the beauty of their flaws and imperfections. I think Wolfie has a lot to learn about respecting others.

Edit - I've printed them out as they appeared on Facebook. It's got his name on it, although he had changed his picture to a G.I.Joe person, but anyway I will be taking it to work tomorrow morning to show my managers.
trigger_mortis's picture

WOW ...just wow. Quad,

WOW


...just wow.

Quad, this guy is bad news. Even if you don't necessarily print it off (though I suggest you do, just in case) you need to warn your bosses about this guy's anger issues.

I honestly fear for what he might do one day if he really snaps.

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...wow.
quadraptor's picture

Well i've gotten them printed

Well i've gotten them printed up and they will be getting them first thing in the morning. I think this charade has gone on long enough. It is too threatening for me to just leave alone.
trigger_mortis's picture

*nods* Good work Quad. I

*nods*

Good work Quad. I really hope this helps make a difference.
eyestrain's picture

Good for you for standing up

Good for you for standing up for yourself.
I hope you find better employment soon.

I don't strive to be the best, but instead I strive to do my best, and always give it my all every time.
-faunet
quadraptor's picture

Finally done. My last day

Finally done. My last day went pretty smoothly (though I had to talk to Wolfie a little).

When I walked in the door, my produce manager as well as two of the store managers were chatting and stuff, so I walked over and handed them the print-outs of Wolfie's words on Facebook.

I think they were all pretty shocked, and so I handed over to my store manager and don't know what he's gonna do about it but it's his choice.

So anyway, I'm officially unemployed. It's a good thing, I'll have more time for schoolwork and will get some stuff done at home.

I am officially OUT of the wolf's mouth. Crepi la Lupo!
trigger_mortis's picture

Hooray! ^^ I'm glad you're

Hooray! ^^ I'm glad you're already feeling the effects of less stress, and I'm glad that the issues are now in your former manager's hands.

<3

I'm happy you're happy Quad. Smiling
SentrySeb's picture

..can-can we get a censor

..can-can we get a censor overt here? isle 9!