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z.m123's picture
This is quite embarassing, and will be deleted.
There's this boy, who I've madly fallen in love with. We've been good friends since we were 9. And now we're 13.
I really want to tell him how I feel, and.. You get the idea.
I can't sleep at night. :I
I always get scared when I think that he doesn't want to be my friend anymore.
How am I supposed to do it? Where? When? Etc..

If anyone would five me some tips, I'd be /so/ grateful. ♥
I hope you understand. I'd do anything for him.

I'm 18 and am yet to figure

I'm 18 and am yet to figure this out myself dearie.

There's never really a particularly universal moment- it's when you feel it is right. Mind you, just because you might feel it's the right time, he may not. Guys are tricky that way. They can be standoffish or act oddly if taken by surprise.

Tell him how you feel when you think it's right, and be prepared for good and bad.

I hope honestly that all goes well, hun (:
Sorry I'm not of much help.

I have good boy friend too, i

I have good boy friend too, i was like 7 when i met him, and now im 14.
I liked him a lot and i had same feeling than u have now.
I just went to Msn messenger (uknow?) and told him. It went like this:

Me:
"I like u.. I mean, a lot."
Boy:
"Really?"
Me:
"Im not lieing.."
Boy:
"Well.."
Me:
"What?"
Boy:
"Mayb i like u too.. A bit."
Me:
"U serious?:o"
Boy:
"Yea. Quess whats funny?"
Me:
"I dont know?"
Boy:
"My ex-girlfriend told me she likes me,
just the same way u told me.. And quess what?"
Me:
"What? :)"
Boy:
" I asked her to date with me, in the same chat"


.. And thats how i started dating him :DD Im not lieing, it really went like that.
You just need to be brave and tell him.


If ur intrested to know, hes now my EX-boyfriend, but i still love him. I left him, idk why ._. Now hes with another girl, and im missing him too much. AH, this reply almost makes me cry ._.
z.m123's picture

Pandalanda: Thank you, means

Pandalanda: Thank you, means alot. ♥

Zigery: Aww, thats sad. ;; I hope it goes well. ♥ And thank you. c:
Starling's picture

Nyarh. I'm only 14. Most of

Nyarh. I'm only 14. Most of my friends have dated someone or are currently with someone. When they ask me "so jess, why aren't you dating anyone?" it makes them sound kinda slutty. LOL. Not that you do, it's just one of my friends has been through 2 boys in one day (only recently) and now I've come to realise how immature she is. Asides from that, she's a pain in the ass anyway. Lol.

When they ask me why I'm not with a guy yet, I say it's because I'm waiting for the right guy to come along <3

Of course, this does not mean the guy you are interested in, is not the right guy. I'm just saying, choose wisely with what you do, and as Pan said, prepare for good and bad. I personally would wait until an older age to commit to a relationship. I have had guys ask me out before, but I said no Sticking out tongue I would rather wait until an age of 17 or over, I guess... Maybe more than that. I know right now a relationship would not last, and I'm scared of saying yes to anyone because I don't want my heart to be broken.

Just saying... Either way if you really think it's the right thing to do, go for it. Just tell him. If he says no, I'm sure things would still run as smooth as they did before. c:

Good luck! <3
Verdalas's picture

Personally, I'd say keep the

Personally, I'd say keep the friendship going for a few more years before you approach him. See how it develops. After all, at your age, it could just be hormones throwing themselves around.

^ *nod nod* I'm in the same

^ *nod nod*
I'm in the same situation, Z, not much older either. But I'm not daring to tell the guy I like him, I'd rather be friends with him than nothing at all and I'm afraid if I bring the 'crushing on him' up he'll pull away from a friendship.
But, if you really like him and you want to tell him now, you'll know when it's the right now. (;

Double Post xD

Double Post xD
Midnightrose's picture

what the all says. say when

what the all says. say when you feel right and expect that it can go both ways. ^^. i myself have this situation. with this boy i have been in love for hmmm 5 -7 years, and i am afraid to tell him, mostly because i don't know if he likes me that way, and some of the other boyys from my class is really immature so i'm afraid to get teased if he says no scratch that you don't need to know it
WonderfullySarcastic's picture

Honestly, I'd say wait. I

Honestly, I'd say wait. I have a younger sister (15) that goes through boys left and right and I don't think I can count how many she's "dated". As someone said, it could be hormones being a right bitch and that can really screw things up later on.
Let's say, you tell the guy you like and he likes you back and you date. A week, month, maybe a year later, you suddenly fall out of love. (Believe me. This sucks. Just had it happen. And I'm 18 T-T)

So pretty much. I'd say wait for a year or two. You could easily lose interest (not saying you will) and then you'll find another guy interesting.
Wash. Rinse. Repeat
I honestly don't mean to sound like a pessimistic and depressed aunt. I swear. But the after effects of hormones can leave you clueless and heart-broken.
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>>Starling: Thank you.

>>Starling: Thank you. ♥

>>Verdy: I'll keep that in mind c:
>>Pepper-Mill-Ranch: ^

>>Middy: I know, I'm just such a wuss. x'D
And aww, almost same thing then. |D

>>WS: Ohman. o_o
Yeah, I know it may be that, but I've had it going on for some years now.. So, I kinda doubt it actually. No offence. c:
WonderfullySarcastic's picture

No offence taken :> Just

No offence taken :>
Just giving out worst possible outcomes~
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z.m123's picture

c: I appreciate that, really.

c:
I appreciate that, really. c:
Thanks to you guys, it feels like I know all the outcomes. |D .. Zeezie the almighty. /flee
J!n's picture

Simply tell him when it feels

Simply tell him when it feels right, chances are he's just as curious as you, or something. Keep in mind your age though, people generally aren't very mature or serious when that young, so try not to take things too hard if it doesn't end well.
z.m123's picture

Thanks, Sao. :3 I'm pretty

Thanks, Sao. :3
I'm pretty much prepared for almost everything now. C8