Hi I made this post because I saw many questions like "Why the x family of deer don't accepts me?" or
"How can I impress them?" I will answer the both questions and more so lets start:
Question: Why does the x family doesn't accepts me?
Answer:They are in that family for a looong time and they talked to make a family. Every family has her rules.
For one exemple :My TEF family has the rule to roleplay good and NOT accepts strangers.The reason they not accepts you is they don't know you.Try to impress them and to interact with them.If they really don't want you the only solution is to leave to not make a conflict.
Question: What should I do to impress them?
Just be yourself and also try to roleplay good. Some of them will not get impressed that easy because (maybe) they play as an aggressive character(Like mine).
Question: How can I make my own family?
There are three methods to make your own family:
1.Make fawn friends because they are the most friendly(warning not all of them are friendly ) and maybe when they will grow they will remember that you played with them and maybe you will make a family with them.
2.Post the "Looking for a family" topic maybe someone is looking for a family member and you are perfect for that.
3.Try to find a method to talk with the community members and ask them if they want to be in your family.
Question: Why are they so aggressive to me?
Answer: They play as aggressive characters so if you come to their family they will attack you.Try to avoid the conflict and leave.

Hope this helped you!