March 7, 2010 - 1:50am — Zergarikiaka
So, here's the deal. I've been under a lot of verbal abuse in real life and am constantly getting slapped with 'fixes' and critiques on how I dress/act/sound/live/what I eat/ ect. Frankly I'm basically at the point of tears in reality and started thinking about some very unplesant things to do to end it.
Frankly, I have been ridiculed to the point of finding myself feeling completely worthless. Like my live is a complete flaw and that I do nothing right, ever.
I need encouragment. Severely.
Please, just someone tell me SOMETHING good. Just let me know if there's ANYTHING good about my being around, or if I've done anything right that you can think of. I hate feeling like a worthless flaw.
Like a failure.
You...are an amazing person,
And you have more worth than that, too- what I've seen of you is a funny, nice person with an awesome imagination.
You are not a failure, Zerg. Don't ever let yourself believe that. <3
Wo wo wo wo , stop ,stop. 1st
1st off your a great person
2 You are kind
3 You are NOT a worthless being
You are a great artist
You are great never forget that.
* hugs*
Nobodies perfect thats why we are human.
I have always admired
You are so extremely friendly...
You have amazing writing skills; you're so creative.
It might seem strange, but there is something really special about you that I can't explain or understand...
Ever since I first got to the
You're not a failure, Zerg. I
I wish I knew you better, but please don't do anything like that.
You're too important to the community, Zerg.
We all love you.
There are no failures - just
I didn't fail the test - I just found 100 ways to do it wrong. - Benjamin Franklin
Failure is a detour, not a dead end street. - Zig Ziglar
Failures are finger posts on the road to achievement. - C.S. Lewis
Failure is the tuition you pay to success. - Walter Brunell
I don't know you that well - and for that, I'm sorry. I'm always delighted to see you pop into my livestream when you do. <3 I don't know you well..but what I do know? I like.
Well for one it makes me
Um oh right, you wanted good, not violent *cough* well really like I said, it's frustrating just to hear that, nobody should be torn down like that!
First of all *hug* don't ever
Anyway, you are not a worthless flaw! I don't know why people ridicule you, but I certainly can't see the reasons here. In this community you always seem to be a bright and positive person, and your drawings always make me smile!
You are not a failure.
You are a beautiful person.
You are loved.
<3
Thank you guys... All of
I really needed to read that.
I wish I could adiquatly express just how much you all mean to me. Really, it means so much to just have some encouragment.
I love you all /too.
I love you, and I know that
Zerg, though our times
Our adventures in TEF and IT were always fun. You're just a fun person to be around, and I think IRL we would get along very well. Some people's standards are impossible to adjust to, and some people are impossible to please. Those people talk nonsense, and I really hope you trust me in saying that, seeing as I'm restricted in the situation you're in. But just know I love you Zergie. I think you're a productive and fun member of our community, and I would never want anything bad to happen to you. Please take care, hun.
Find me at my "toboe" account
I know it's hard to believe
All through my school years I was harassed and ridiculed, until I reached a point where I had some seriously ugly thoughts... but I survived, and it was worth it. When I got into college I started having more freedom to be around the people I chose to be around, instead of having my social circle forced on me by the school situation. The older I've gotten the more power I've had to choose who I'm around, and you know who I've found? Well first I just thought I'd found a lot of amazingly cool, creative, intelligent, supportive people, but then I also found out that these people had suffered the same kind of humiliation in their school years.
What I'm trying to say is that the awesome people are out there, and you're one of them.
I'm not good with words, but
you are a gorgeous,
@Danii: I'm always willing to
Rowan: That's really true. There are so many people, often in authority over others, who just never can be pleased. Even though in the past we've only been able to RP or hang out a select few times, I don't see any reason we can't again in the future. <3
Pega: SCAAAAAAAAPE. <3 Darn I think I teared up.
Sarie: ;_; Thank you. I think I officially started crying after reading that. I love you, and everyone here, so much darn it.
Quae: <3
Yeah, those schooling days are hard...
D8 I've seen nothing but
I've seen nothing but kindness and a good attitude coming from you the whole time you've been here. I hate it when people disapprove or try to change someone else to better fit their personal ideal. It's stupid. I don't think there's anything you should change about yourself, and you are faaaaar from worthless, babe. <3
You're incredible and smart
And I feel this is necessary. -HUGHUGHUG-
Forest FAQ
iloveyou-fail- |D You are an
|D
You are an amazing person, and very funny. VERY funny....VER VERY VERY funny.
Even though I dont realllyyy know that well.
*hugglespam*
You always say nice things to
Why didn't I see this
I understand how you feel. I've been through the same thing.
You are one of the first friends I've made on TEF. I think you are among the first to welcome me, although I can't remember if you commented on my first blog here (I'm thinking you might have, either my first or second, one of my early blogs, anyway...they're gone now so I can't check). I have always thought that you are awesome, for several reasons. You're a talented writer, you have awesome characters, and you're a good friend. And you're just generally a cool person. I'm really glad to have met you and to know you.
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I don't really know you at
Rawr.
Marriage is a relationship where one is the husband and the other is always right.
I feel the same way. But to
I love you so much dear. I enjoy you company. You make me feel happy and comfortable. You've never judged me and you've always been by my side. I care about you very much. And I'm always here for you if you ever need to talk to someone about anything.
Just go take some time to relax. Go outside and watch the sunset. Sleep in the sun during the day. Do anything you can to be alone and give yourself time to think. Your needed as much as anyone else. And if it counts for anything, I need you.
<3
*hugs* You're awesome. Seed
WELOVEYOUZERG!!
Be yourself, and don't let people tell you who to be. I went down that road and it doesn't lead anywhere.
Don't look at things as successes or failures, but rather as learning experiences. Like "Okay this doesn't work, so let's try something else." until you get it right.
And if you need some encouragement, read this poem. It's words are completely true!
Things may be terrible, but just keep going until it gets better. And that's coming from a pessimist!
If you need to vent, I'll always listen.