How exactly does this work... i found another deer (its moving and stuff) that has my pictogram... is someone hacking me or is it a glitch?

I know about Abiogenesis but i don't know if the random colorful flower petals and mooing bubbles if part of it?

My character is a doe but since you cant be a doe in this game im just gonna make myself look like one so i can say i am. Anyways im wondering what is the smallest antlers you can get so i don't have some big male antlers on my head.

Im trying to come up with a deer name and im sort of stuck, i have been checking words in other languages but i haven't found any 'mystical' and 'enchanted' sounding names to fit the theme of TEF. So yeah, title says it all.

Im new... Thats it... Well i just got the game and i have A LOT of questions...
1. is it possible to play as a female deer and if not do people still pretend to?
2. and if you can only play as male then why is there a genderless button that turns you into a pink orb?
3. can someone give me a link to a guide on the moments and what that mean in deer language?
4. why they have such derpy faces (Sorry i just had to X3)
5. is there a map, and if so what is the main meeting place?
6. can someone hang out with me? im lonely D:

Thanks ^.^