1st Annual Rememberance Day (July 24th, 2011)

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This is an announcement for an event I will be hosting on Sunday, July 24th, the 1st anniversary of my Dad's passing away. We will also dedicate this to those in Norway, our prayers go out to them as well.

Date - July 24th, 2011
Time - All day (I'll try to log into the Forest around 7:00 AM CST, and will most likely log out around 8:00-10:00 PM CST)
Place - Run's memorial near the Ruins (see below for a few screenshots of where to sit)
We prefer you sit around the light, and please do not stand/dance in the center.
No dress code, wear whatever you have on at the time.

Here is where we will be sitting at:







Look for Quad, and please feel free to sit with him as long as you'd like. Please keep in mind that I will not be at my laptop the entire time, but just being there with Quad if only for a little while is all you need to do.

If you guys don't mind, please take screenshots for me. And if you can't make it, please don't feel bad, I understand completely.

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It's amazing that it's been a year since Dad passed away from rectal and liver cancer. I can still remember last year very vividly, and since then, we've gotten to our 'new normal' as they say. There are still things that feel awkward, still things that remind us of Dad, still things we cry over from time to time. But it's over and we know he's at peace. Just knowing Dad isn't suffering the way he was is enough for us.

I wanted to thank you all for your support last year. I don't know where I would be - physically, emotionally, and mentally - without this community's love.


My brother made this video and posted it on Facebook this morning. I'm going to post it here but if for any reason he or my Mom don't want me to share it, I will remove it. I just thought it would be something you guys would like to see, and my brother makes wonderful videos.



Edit and screenshot blogs others have posted for this event:

Some screenshots for Quad by Mistgabel
Peaceful Moments by Samorn
In Memoriam by Mr. Sanguine

Rememberance Day Screenshot Gallery
Kaoori's picture

I'll be here to join you

I'll be here to join you later, I've got to run out. ♥
ShikaTale's picture

*EDIT* Oh my bad I see its

*EDIT* Oh my bad I see its still going on. I am there, but where is everyone getting the candles?
Flyleaf's picture

I am glad i am sitting with

I am glad i am sitting with you and all these amazing peoples here !! it is sad but in the same time very beautiful with all these candles and the rain !!! And the screenshots posted here are all aesome !!
Avatar @ Sluggs Siggy @ Amazegenalo
Bouncing Fly by Mary13
quadraptor's picture

Shika - some people were

Shika - some people were giving them out at the Playground. They might still be doing it, not sure. Try asking on here if anyone is still giving them out.

One last edit. Apparently,




One last edit. Apparently, the death toll in Norway is rising. :/
*crowds Quad*
Spyrre's picture

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<3
Iaurdagnire's picture

I'm glad I was able to be

I'm glad I was able to be here today for your dads remembrance, and thank you for dedicating it to Norway, too. My friend was caught in it, and I'm so glad he is alive; my thoughts are with him and the friends he has sadly lost.
ShikaTale's picture

I got some screenshots for

I got some screenshots for you, I will be editing then posting soon
Sphene's picture

At first I didn't know what

At first I didn't know what the large circle of stags and fawns in the forest was meant for so I asked in the screenshot section. After realizing that it was a memorial I went over to where it was taking place and sat there for about an hour with everyone else. When I first saw the circle I didn't run around like it was a party. I'm glad that I didn't because I would've felt terrible if I did.
SobekNofru's picture

I like the calm and peaceful

I like the calm and peaceful atmosphere here and I'm glad I can share this thoughtful moment with you all. Smiling
Siggy by Bu <3

For a moment my forest just

For a moment my forest just had a few pictos up and I thought I had missed it!
I'm so glad I haven't though, I put Zera in to join the circle <3

The peaceful atmosphere was

The peaceful atmosphere was great and I'm glad that I could be there to support those who became a victim in Norway and those who passed because of cancer. This is only the second event that I've been to in my couple of years of being a member and I'm glad that it was one of the first that I attended.

I aren't able to attend. I am

I aren't able to attend. I am sorry.



quadraptor's picture

I'm back, glad to see so many

I'm back, glad to see so many still here. You guys are great!

Let me know if there's a time you think we should end this. I think last year we kept this going until there were only a few people left.
Celtis's picture

It was an honor to be able to

It was an honor to be able to sit with you all today in quiet repose. It does the old heart good to see everyone coming together. From the somber adults to the cheerful fawns that seemed determined to be happy and play (life goes on, hmm?) it was a lovely scene.

quadraptor's picture

I think we need to have more

I think we need to have more organized events like this. I think they really bring us all together.

I wanted to ask if it's okay if I made a separate blog later and put all the screenshots and edits together so we can see all the variety? I'll credit each person for taking each one
Nayu's picture

^ Yes, and you should!

^ Yes, and you should!

Siggy by Butterbrot <3
Butterbrot's picture

good idea and perfectly fine

good idea and perfectly fine by me <3

Mr.Sanguine's picture

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quadraptor's picture

Here's the screenshot

Here's the screenshot gallery. If you've taken screenshots, please post them in this blog and I'll add them to the gallery.
Laruna's picture

Black and white versions: 1,



Black and white versions: 1, 2

Thinking of you and your family today, Quad...<3 And my heart and thoughts go out to those affected by the tragedy in Norway. Sad
quadraptor's picture

Hey everyone, I'm going to

Hey everyone, I'm going to lay down for a little bit, so Quad will continue to sleep. Please don't feel obligated to stay if you have other things you need to do.

I think this was a really successful event, and it could not have been possible if it wasn't for each and every one of you, even if you couldn't make it just keeping the people of Norway in your prayers was wonderful.

I wanted to thank you guys for such a wonderful day, I think taking the time to slow down and reflect was very beneficial.
Kamino's picture

Thanks to all of you for this

Thanks to all of you for this nice day. I absolutely agree Sobek, I love this feeling of solidarity. One day to remember.
And I also think such events are a great thing for this community.

Well, I admit I tried some edits, too. They're not great but I really wanted to stress the light of our circle. I love those edits here. Especially those of Anjali.


byButterbrot
Snowsauria's picture

I don't think people mind if

I don't think people mind if you log off now, Quad. It has been a really nice gathering, and that people show this kind of sympathy makes me admire our community even more.
And again, thank you so much for dedicating this event to the victims of Norway as well. It means a lot. ♥

I hope you had a nice day,

I hope you had a nice day, Quad. Unfortuantely I have to leave but I had a nice evening ♥
You and your family will be in my thoughts Smiling

I'm sorry its not much, but









I'm sorry its not much, but Lev and I wanted to contribute. <3
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Zeekii's picture

xxx &hearts;

xxx
Nayu's picture

Yeulh and Nayu just left.

Yeulh and Nayu just left. Goodnight Quad, goodnight everyone.

edit: Zeekii, I really like your second edit!

Siggy by Butterbrot <3
Dampir's picture

Beautiful video. I noticed

Beautiful video. I noticed how much your Dad changed over the years.
I have some screenshots for you. I took them after a few hours when we started, but just now I could share them.
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quadraptor's picture

Thank you for these

Thank you for these screenshots, they're absolutely stunning!

I've added a bunch of screenshots to the gallery so everyone please check them out. The variety of edits and angles are amazing!
quadraptor's picture

Alright everyone, it's 8:20

Alright everyone, it's 8:20 PM CST by my clock, so I think we can say this has officially ended. Please feel free to leave if you'd like, and thank you all for an amazing day!
ickydog's picture

Edited a couple of screenies

Edited a couple of screenies from this evening. So very lovely.



Kobal Snuff
Redkora's picture

I'll come by right now.

I'll come by right now.
[pixel deer by Aldebaran]
quadraptor's picture

Thanks Red! I hope I didn't

Thanks Red! I hope I didn't confuse you with the pelt spamming, I just thought you'd like your Kabuki pelt.



"After party"
Sphene's picture

This is the only screenshot



This is the only screenshot that I took because I didn't think that a ton of them would be necessary, but I hope that you think it's good enough to display on the screenshot gallery.
quadraptor's picture

Of course it is! Thank you

Of course it is! Thank you for coming, I hope you had a good time Smiling
Sphene's picture

I enjoyed being with the

I enjoyed being with the other deer in the forest, but it was a day to think about those who were lost so it wasn't something to be goofing around at. Plenty of deer came to show their respect and it made me happy to know that this community is that great.
Uruushou's picture

I don't think he's in the

I don't think he's in the screenshots, but I had Oliver sit in the circle for a while. He sang a lullaby to put everyone at ease, as he is wont to do. It was a lovely and emotional event, and I'm glad that I could be there for it. ♥
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SilverBells's picture

It shocked me when I heard

It shocked me when I heard about Norway, it's awful. I'm one of those people who wish they could be right there and help somebody, but haven't the slightly idea what they would do. And I really have nothing good and deep to say about your father. If I did it would seem empty. But I watched the video and he has a nice smile. He seems like a calm person. (: I never like talking about people who have passed away in past tense, I just don't, because they're never completely gone. ♥ So... Instead of me talking, here's music. Some of my favorites, that seemed to relate somehow.

Dare you to move (instrumental)~

This is home~

Before the Morning~

Reaching (instrumental)~

And I don't know if you saw it or not, but I'm in art block right now, just starting to come out of it I think, but nothing I do turns out how I want it lately. I'm waiting a little while to do your request art, simply because I want it to be right. For some reason it started while I was in the hospital and it hasn't left yet. -___-







Flyleaf's picture

A few screenies from me :

A few screenies from me :


Avatar @ Sluggs Siggy @ Amazegenalo
Bouncing Fly by Mary13
quadraptor's picture

Silverbells - Thank you for

Silverbells - Thank you for the music. They are simply beautiful and wonderful selections. I feel so terrible for those in Norway and agree, I wish I could help myself. And please take all the time you need for the artwork, I'm in no hurry.

Flyleaf - Thanks for the screenshots!
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