Who on TEFc do you hate?

May 30, 2012 - 4:42am — Mr.Sanguine

_{A friend of mine posed this question to me this morning. My answer was a resounding 'no one'.

I quickly realized at that question, that there are probably way more people than just one wondering who I 'have it out for'. I get into my fair share of debates, I can be snappish, I come off as arrogant.

But in the end, I don't hate anyone on TEF, I don't even strongly dislike anyone.

I have been told, and called, in my time here on TEF, a great many things, usually in private, I've been told I don't deserve any friends because I'm such a terrible person, I've been told I should kill myself, I've heard a lot of things.

There are people who's actions I wonder about, there are people who wonder about my actions.

There are people who talk trash about me behind my back {or that's what I've been told, don't hold me to it} but that's just the thing, there are terrible people in the world, there are people in this world that I do in fact loathe with every ounce of my being, there are people out there who deserve to be thought of in a negative way.

Nobody on TEF is one of those people.

I'm more than happy to be friends with literally anyone. I know how I come off, it's purposeful, I come off as, excuse my language, a gigantic ass, because, as I was telling someone the other day, I don't want people to think I'm sunshine and rainbows, if they're going to dislike me I want them to do it right away rather than get close to me and hurt me. But that isn't the point at the moment.

The point is that if anyone I've been horrid to, or anyone I've had a fight with turned around and said that was unnecessary I would quickly apologize, I do a lot of apologizing, I was once banned from saying 'sorry' in my household because I said it too much, {my mother made me say 'basket' in lieu of 'sorry' until I toned it down}

I love everyone here, would welcome anyone, anyone here into my own home with open arms if they had need of it. Would defend anyone here if they were being unjustly attacked, would help anyone with anything they wanted help with if they needed.

Anyone who says they haven't discussed a person or an event on TEF off of the TEFc is probably lying. We're human beings, we do silly things. But holding on to silly grudges doesn't get anyone anywhere. If I've ever hurt you, or offended you or done anything like that, and you want an apology, please, please talk to me because you deserve an apology, because everyone deserves to be treated like a human being and nobody deserves to sit around with any negative sort of feeling, I promise you with everything I have that I don't hold any sort of ill-will towards anyone here no matter how it may seem.

I don't go out of my way to make anyone feel bad, I don't think anyone should go out of their way to go out of their way to say only bad things about a person, trust me I love you all, yes, all of you even if sometimes we drive one another insane, even if you think there's no way I could hold anything but contempt for you, trust me I don't.

If you want me to say sorry to you, if you need someone to talk to, if you need someone to listen while you rant, hell if you just need someone to tell you why you're so fantastic please contact me. Even if we've had disagreements or huge fights in the past, no matter what I've said to you or you've said to me.

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Thank you for your time.}

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May 30, 2012 - 5:00am — Amazon

/send hug

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May 30, 2012 - 5:21am — quadraptor

We're all family here, we

We're all family here, we have our disagreements and squabbles but in the end we love each other and need each other. I cannot begin to fathom what I would be like if I never found this community.

You've got nothing to apologize for. You're hardwired just as differently as I am, it's what makes you a human being, an individual, and that's a damn beautiful thing in my eyes. Because really, who would want a world of all the same person, you know?

*nuzzles until it leaves a rash*

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May 30, 2012 - 5:47am — OrinocoFlow

-glomps everyone here and

-glomps everyone here and everyone who joins-

We are like a big family, we have our tiffs in Tef but in the end its all good ^^

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May 30, 2012 - 6:38am — evilmuffin

I've only been on the forums

I've only been on the forums for a little while, but I can truthfully say the people I've seen on this site are some of the nicest people I've ever met, as individuals or as a group. uh, thank you for the read! all my hugs to you

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May 30, 2012 - 6:43am — Sham

&hearts;

♥

May 30, 2012 - 8:51am — RikkaChan

A thousand pounds of respect

A thousand pounds of respect to you.

May 30, 2012 - 11:09am — Nimariel

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May 30, 2012 - 11:32am — Flyleaf

Like you said ...Mr.Sanguine

Like you said ...Mr.Sanguine ....and Hate is a real Strong Feeling !
Thumbs Up

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May 30, 2012 - 9:56pm — Lung

I know you and I have argued

I know you and I have argued a few times here on the TEFc, but I've never held any of it against you. Even if I was mad at the time, none of it has been things that I've felt you needed to apologize to me for. People argue, people get angry with one another - and what people mostly refuse to believe is that that's completely normal.

You're someone who calls it like it is, even if it comes off a bit harsh. Yet you're also kind, and fun to talk with. Your personal blog has a lot of amusing/fun/interesting things in it, and I like reading the comments, even if I don't respond to them a lot.

I do, in fact, consider you a friend, even though we barely talk anymore. Likewise, if you ever need or want anything, don't be afraid to come to me. I'll always listen, even if I'm horrible with advice, haha.

<3 (:

May 30, 2012 - 10:01pm — Tulloh

(:

May 30, 2012 - 10:06pm — LittleNo

indeeeed~

indeeeed~<3

May 30, 2012 - 10:44pm — Rutilus

;; &hearts;

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May 31, 2012 - 2:21am — Mr.Sanguine

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<3 iluall

Lung;
ffff I really do need to talk to you more, every time I add you on YIM or MSN it seems to mess up, it's been driving me insane for literally a year now
ewfyweuyf
♥

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May 31, 2012 - 2:32am — Kaoori

This is extremely adult to

This is extremely adult to say. I admire you for it.

But I always have anyway, though

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May 31, 2012 - 3:06am — Takala

I love you all ;n;

May 31, 2012 - 3:15am — Momochi

Excellent words. I have so

Excellent words. I have so much respect for this post.
And all the love in this thread is awesome ;u; ♥

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May 31, 2012 - 4:19am — Poppyflower

I hate no one. I LOVE

I hate no one. I LOVE EVERYONE HERE.
-glomps everyone on TEF in a huge glomp pile and mushes them together-

Unlike most of the other sites out there, TEF is a MATURE SITE WHERE PEOPLE DON`T GET INTO STUPID FIGHTS OVER NOTHING AND TRY TO BAD MOUTH EACH OTHER.

And we still have fun doing what we love, without people saying: Oh, thats stupid, or U suck and so on.
Everyone respects each other here.

And believe me, at my age, I needed a site like this.

The best part about this site? Everyone`s willing to listen.

So thank you, TEF. MEHS LOVES YOUS.

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May 31, 2012 - 4:28am — Lung

It messes up? Hm. I'm going

It messes up? Hm. I'm going to add you then, let's see if it goes through.

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