step (non-tef)

Nimariel's picture
Gosh, I feel like I'm gradually dropping out of here. Well, things happen- it's as if the people you know are steps in a staircase, so when you're trying to get back up that staircase to reach TEF again you can't because those people aren't there. Thus, you fall back down, or enter into the Forest looking for a ladder, but never finding it.

But depressing things aside- the fact remains I don't drop by often. Little, if at all- the "The Endless Forest" homepage link on 'Most Visited" has been dropping down a lot of ranks. However, there's a reason for that.
Perhaps I'm on the younger end of the spectrum- but that's good, because now I can ask older players for advice. I am choosing between colleges, and have the option of staying at home and commuting via train or going to one about 6 -7 hours away. In all honesty, I would like to go away, but I feel uneasy because if I stay at home I will only have to pay about 6,000 per year opposed to 20,000 per year. Both are in-state. My family is doing well financially, but I don't know how much I will be able to work for and pay off myself.

What's your opinion? How was it in your first years? Sharing experiences helps Smiling I know there are some college students in TEF.
Apoidea's picture

My first year I moved 5 hours

My first year I moved 5 hours away and it was a great experience when it comes to being on my own, but a financial burden when it came to gas money. In most US schools you're required to live on campus when a freshman unless you live within a certain distance of the school or are of a certain age, so it wasn't an option to live at home no matter where I went if I wanted to go to a university and not community college.

I'd say pick for the college and not the distance, as the quality of the education should be a top priority. The money would be something to weigh out as well.
Aegle's picture

I'm currently in college and

I'm currently in college and I chose to go roughly 2,500 miles away from my home. It's been difficult but an experience I'm glad that I chose.
If both colleges are equal to you education wise, I say travel. This is the time to do it. You will have to pay it off, I'm going to have to find a way also, but I know I will find a way. It's about enjoying life.

Best of luck in your decisions! If you ever need any advice feel free to ask. <3