When i go into the forest and sign in im a baby deer but does it take time to age or do u get to pic when u age?

Do we get to be a female dear if we are femail if we dont thats not fair

My friend jookie signed up and that is all that she talked about so i decided to start one but i lost intrest in it but she still just shut up about it and i forgot my username and password so I finally started another one about after a month and this is my NEW one:)