It's starting to come to my understanding that you really can't say anything without hurting someone's feelings or making someone angry. We're all set in our own ways, and while we have different opinions, it's my hope that despite the words and drama, we can still be friends. I thought that voicing my observations and thoughts would help TEF in the long run, but instead I came off as judgemental, hurtful, and prejudicial toward people who like skulls.
I never meant to be judge, hurt, or prejudice anyone, and after rereading my posts, I did.
So for that I am sorry, and for now this will be my goodbye. I'm letting this community steer the reigns of my life, so I need to take control of it. I'll be back one day.
I suppose it would help us all if we remembered this sentence: "It's just a game."
I really do love you all, and I wish that despite my wrongful doings that you'll forgive me.
If you need me for Rock Hounds or if I owe you poetry or a story, you can get in touch with me through e-mail (lapras316@hotmail.com) or MSN (quadzilla7@live.com)
It's one of the hardest things in life to live in complete harmony with everyone, and sometimes it just isn't possible. There will always be people you can't agree with, but you know that already. You did come across to me as judgmental, but we all are. There isn't a person on this earth that doesn't make assumptions, but how we let those judgements impact our actions and words is what matters.
Know that I don't hold you any grudge for what you said and I wish you the absolute best in figuring where you want to be out. Pop in and visit The Forest from time to time!
Honestly Quad, I salute you for this. I hold no grudge against you and I don't think I ever would. You, like me, sometimes get that foot in mouth syndrome, but we all do it. Like Tera said, it is beyond difficult to make everyone happy, so don't judge yourself so harshly either.
You're a nice person and you try to be nice to everyone, and that's not a bad thing, just don't let it rule you. You're gonna have to make some folks angry in life. Don't let that bring you down.
Getting away from something that makes you feel negative is a wonderful idea, and I hope it brings you some peace to take a break and step back from TEF for a while. Just remember, we'll all be here when and if you decide to return. ♥
I'm very sad to see you go.You will be missed greatly by many.
I know you wouldn't purposely try to come of that way.Take care and I hope to see you soon.
I was about to say something on Matthieu's topic about the skull masks, but since it was deleted, I'll say it here as last words on the subject:
"it gives me an immediate dislike for any deer that has 'avoids/is wary of/etc skull masks' because I know they're going to judge in-forest looks, not how they ACTUALLY look."
I've felt this before from other deer, especially fawns, who are scared and run away from Quad when he's got his Zombie antlers on. I know that can be put into the "IC" context, but it does hurt my feelings that someone would judge my deer as being an aggressive brute just because he's wearing the big red antlers. I always wish I could tell those people directly, "Hey, Quad's a pacifist and a sweetheart, don't be afraid of him.", but since this is TEF it's impossible.
So I suppose I understand how the skull-masked deer feel discriminated against by other players, since I sometimes have felt discriminated against because of a pair of antlers.
Take care, Quad ♥
It's one of the hardest
Know that I don't hold you any grudge for what you said and I wish you the absolute best in figuring where you want to be out. Pop in and visit The Forest from time to time!
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Honestly Quad, I salute you
You're a nice person and you try to be nice to everyone, and that's not a bad thing, just don't let it rule you. You're gonna have to make some folks angry in life. Don't let that bring you down.
Getting away from something that makes you feel negative is a wonderful idea, and I hope it brings you some peace to take a break and step back from TEF for a while. Just remember, we'll all be here when and if you decide to return. ♥
You've never done bad by
I don't strive to be the best, but instead I strive to do my best, and always give it my all every time.
-faunet
I'm very sad to see you
I know you wouldn't purposely try to come of that way.Take care and I hope to see you soon.
You're one of the loveliest
With that said, do take care and I hope you return soon. <3
I was about to say something
"it gives me an immediate dislike for any deer that has 'avoids/is wary of/etc skull masks' because I know they're going to judge in-forest looks, not how they ACTUALLY look."
I've felt this before from other deer, especially fawns, who are scared and run away from Quad when he's got his Zombie antlers on. I know that can be put into the "IC" context, but it does hurt my feelings that someone would judge my deer as being an aggressive brute just because he's wearing the big red antlers. I always wish I could tell those people directly, "Hey, Quad's a pacifist and a sweetheart, don't be afraid of him.", but since this is TEF it's impossible.
So I suppose I understand how the skull-masked deer feel discriminated against by other players, since I sometimes have felt discriminated against because of a pair of antlers.
Oh well. That's all I have to say about that.
do you have an IM client? I
do you have an IM client?I AM HERPING DERPS.
adding you on MSN<3
Aww Quad D: Its really sad to
Its really sad to see a good friend go, but I would love to add you to msn
Hope things get better for ya mate