Blamed for Everything? (Mini-Rant)

Graveyard's picture


Sorry to bring this to the world of The Endless Forest but I have to get it off my chest before I explode. I'm not sure if my *ahem* family looks at my Art pages so this is probably the safest place to rant about it without getting hounded down by their... tyranny anymore than I desire.

Most of you don't know (Or some of you might, if you talk to me enough on MSN to know) that I had lost my Job way back in August. And since then I have been helping my mother with watching over my 3 1/2 year old Cousin. This wouldn't be an issue if his parents would TRAIN HIM PROPERLY... at this age, the boy refuses... and I mean REFUSES to use the toilet. He still goes in 'diapers' AKA Pull-Ups that he wears and he has EVEN Soiled himself in his UNDERWEAR!

The biggest one is that... they never SUPPLIED US for taking care of their child... never PAID us anything to buy him FOOD. They would never buy him food for US to keep here unless we TOLD THEM! Hell they wouldn't even give us money unless we ASKED them for it... and they still don't even pay us.

It's getting beyond ridiculous with this damned boy, we can take him to the 'potty' and he refuses or he HOLDS it until he is off and 5 minutes later he soils himself. But that's not the issue anymore... no... now his mother (fucking bitch that she is) is holding a grudge and giving my mother the cold shoulder for her own STUPID MISTAKES! Apparently she's not accepting the consequences for what the fuck she did. Which is just further reason for me to hate the woman anyway. I personally don't consider her a part of the family, she's not married to my uncle they are only shacked up and she believes that because of this her daughters get everything that my dear grandmother owns. HAH WRONG!

Anyway back to what's pissing me off in general... the fact that she is giving my mom the cold shoulder... ah yes that. You see a few days prior (I believe it was Thursday) my mom had asked for a couple dollars since we were running out of Toilet Paper and needed some. She asked for a couple bucks to buy a couple rolls of toilet paper from Dollar Tree to tide us over until Child Support came in. WELL my aunt, being at work decides to go and get some of the Toilet Paper from there... she worked for the school.

Last time I checked STEALING from work was not a good thing. And was punishable... not to mention the fact that the dumb bitch has done it BEFORE (Apparently having given my GRANDMOTHER rolls from the school as well) but was never 'caught' in the act. My mom refused them, but ended up bringing the things home and apparently the next day my Aunt was fired. And then my uncle comes in and says it (Oh I knew he was pissed about it, and likely blaming my mom for it) and then it goes from there.

Today my mom went down to visit my Grandmother (Thank god I didn't go) and apparently they were there... children getting away with everything of course. But my grandmother was the only one to acknowledge my mother when she came in... the rest? Gave her the cold shoulder... hmmmmm last I checked it was YOUR fault that you go fired bitch and YOUR OWN stupidity for doing what you did in the first place. You're suffering the consequences for your actions, DEAL WITH IT!

So, Monday I am likely going to be involved in the biggest bitch fight of the century between my uncle and my mom. AND I'm more than likely to get involved in the bitch fight, because personally... she's not working anymore? Why should WE have to watch her child when she's at home sitting on her ass chilling on Facebook? So Monday my moms likely going to tell them off (Likely... HAH is... is the proper word) and tell them that they can find a new babysitter. And they better not dump that brat off on my Grandmother... she can't HANDLE him. If they do that'll bring even MORE war to this already chaotic thing I call a family...

That sounds stressful. I'm

That sounds stressful. I'm sorry to say, but the only reason people behave like this is because they can get away with it. Tell them you guys won't babysit him if she's not paying you. And if she gives him to your grandmother, tell you grandmother she shouldn't babysit him either. She should raise her own kid, not give the responsibility to others and then get mad about it? It's her child.
Chickenwhite's picture

Goddayum... I always held a

Goddayum... I always held a strong belief that children was something you needed a license to get. I mean, come on! How many problems wouldn't that solve? Just take a free child-school with an exam, pass it and you're free to get a kid. Otherwise, get that friggin kid away from the bitch, she doesn't know how to take care of it! Phew... sorry about that...
But it seriously sounds like she's not suited to be a mother... And it's just such a load of bullshit when someone push their views onto others, antagonising perfectly innocent people... Some people really need a massive reality-check.
*gives you nuzzles and a punchbag*
Graveyard's picture

Oh believe me darling, she's

Oh believe me darling, she's NOT suited to raise children. Her first 3 (before the current 'lot' she has) were never taken care of by her. She would always pass them off onto others, the eldest would watch the younger two and they never had their mother around them to 'care' for them.

She's done the same with these 3... and is still doing so. My grandmother cannot take them anymore, and we're on our last leg. She needs to grow up, royally... before even considering blaming anyone for anything. Her own stupidity is why she got fired, yet she's the 'queen bitch' in her world and doesn't think it's wrong.

"Your efforts are insignificant! I carry you to your deaths!"
Chickenwhite's picture

Goddammit, she sounds

Goddammit, she sounds absolutely horrible... Someone should give her a good slap and show her a mirror, just so she could see what the hell she's doing with her life and the lives of her children... Honestly, she sounds more ugly on the inside than some things I've drawn... Maybe it'd be an idea to try and sit her down and have a calm talk with er, though it doesn't sound like she's the kinda person that'd work on...

/slaps everyone that's giving

/slaps everyone that's giving the hardship to you guys

Really, I wish I could. WHAM.
Graveyard's picture

[On a side note... GORGEOUS

[On a side note... GORGEOUS DRAWING! *ahem*]

Pfffffffffffft, I doubt I would be able to sit down and have a calm talk with her believe me on this... I couldn't hold my tongue. After maybe 5 minutes I would more than likely tear her down and rip her big cow ass a new hole and another one before the day is done. I can't stand the woman... she makes me want to kill over and come back again so I can just do it all over again. I can't stand children (Working a year at wal-mart made me DETEST the little things) but now it's getting worse... Ugh...

*snuggles Whey* ILU Babeh... I wish I could be where you are ;3;

"Your efforts are insignificant! I carry you to your deaths!"
Chickenwhite's picture

(Aww, thanks XD It's a

(Aww, thanks XD It's a character of mine called Rancid >w< *is a little proud of her name-giving skills*)

Yeah, I'm pretty sure those little monster are really demons from the deepest circles of hell... And as for her, she sounds like all the people I ever disliked and I truly understand you! Some people you just can't be in the same room as without getting an immense and very violent urge to kill... (Sometimes I just love reacting on my voodoo-doll, it's so full of win that way TwT)

I wish you could be too.

I wish you could be too. :/

That kid wouldn't be coming though.
Graveyard's picture

No kids would be coming, it

No kids would be coming, it would be just me and me alone darling.

UGH! Even more reason for me to hate her now... they waited the ENTIRE day with my cousin being sick (One of the girls, not the 3 1/2 year old shit in his pants boy) and just NOW took her to the ER... seriously? Are you fucking serious? If I was sick (or if my family was sick) I wouldn't be so fucking lazy as to wait the entire DAY to go to the ER... if it was bad I'd have gone the moment I fucking could!

"Your efforts are insignificant! I carry you to your deaths!"
Chickenwhite's picture

-without hesitation! What is

-without hesitation! What is it with these people? they sound like they have no regards for other people!
Bayleen's picture

-aggravated sigh- Oh gawd, I

-aggravated sigh- Oh gawd, I HATE IT when people don't take responsibility for their stuff! Especially when it's a CHILD!Exclaim!! IMEAN,FUCK, shouldn't they have been prepared to have a kid?!!!

Geez, I'm so sorry what you're going through. I see how you're pissed about this, and I reaaaaalllyyy hope things get better for you and your family. ghnnnnn.... -_-
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Graveyard's picture

What aggravated me more was

What aggravated me more was when the lovely bitch posted on my facebook after I had posted about not blaming others for your mistakes, because in the end you should be blaming yourself for them. I could tell she was pissed at me and my mom by her response which was along the lines of basically saying "Yeah helping the family came back and bit me in the ass but I guess I'm dealing with the consequences..."

Bullshit she is... holding a pissy grudge because you lost your job isn't dealing with them. My mom said if they are just going to treat us like shit they can find another babysitter... which they are... because come Monday there's probably going to be a huge bitch fight between her and my uncle... >3>

"Your efforts are insignificant! I carry you to your deaths!"
Alphafrost's picture

Sweety- Tell her this:

Sweety-

Tell her this:

You are a arse. You cannot be married. My mom will come and sue you. You cannot have a child. I shall take the child away. I shall also squeeze him to make him poop. Or, i can come and kill you. Your choice.

That Flippin' arse. Just-Just kill her.

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Hitting you over the head
You’re bleeding
Boy you want more?
This is so like you I said
Put yourself on back to bed †