When I thought I had respect....

Wildrose's picture
Hello guys.


This is not a rude post or anything :I Not really anything to do with this game but I do wanna ask for help. I have this 17 year old girl on this game called "World Of Warcraft." Makes a lot harassment for me, she mocks my English..even said to me a couple of times that I need to go back to primary school. I really don't know who this 17 year old girl thinks who she is but..shes really got out of hand for me..I tried reporting stuff to game master etc But now shes even got people whispering harassing messages.This game really does not to protect their players in my eyes...But I am sick and tired of coming across player like this in multiple games.. I just hope I can settle here with out any of that stuff happening.

I tried to set things right with this young girl, I even tried saying sorry just encase I have upset or in any shame or form..But all I got what "F**** off your not good enough to be my friend." and until this day...The little girl still goes around making drama for me and I continue to get harassed because of her.


I really am Sorry If this feels like I am complaining and all but I really can not make friends On that game (Which is pretty much the only game I play expect endless forest) I just wanna talk about things with people and this community and hear there point of view on this :/
Zergarikiaka's picture

I'm sorry you had to go

I'm sorry you had to go through such experiences. That kind of attitude from younger players on multiplayer games ruins the fun for others and is consequentially a reason I often avoid them like the plague. However, the Forest has always been a more respectful and friendly place. I don't think you'll encounter that kind of nastiness here. <3
Wildrose's picture

Thank you for commenting on

Thank you for commenting on this post, Since I have been in this for forest for about a year now I have just felt so happy and at peace as people do want to interact with you. As well as play with you for who you are, I am so grateful the developers have made this game for everyone to be equal. I love everything about the community and I really love players like you guys that are so strong and supportive of other people instead of going around and worrying about just your self's. Really has showed me a lot of respect that people can have for each and other unlike mainstream games today..


So again Thank you showing that you care <3 Thank you endless for being here during my hard times!

@zergarikiaka: That really means a lot to me..that you have welcomed me! Nothing beats when people welcomeing you and you really do feel wanted for once on a community. So thank you so much <3
Bayleen's picture

Wow, I am so disappointed in

Wow, I am so disappointed in how childish people can be on the internet. Even more disappointed that none of the admins on WoW haven't been able to help you!
I'm so sorry for that experience. No one should be treated that way in any form.

I've never been in this situation so I cannot give any proper advice, only my support for you my dear ♥
The only thing I can think of is maybe take a break from that game and come back to it later? If that person sees you're inactive, maybe they won't harass you online anymore? That is the only thing I can think of for now, but let us know if anything changes <333
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Kamaya's picture

Hey, I give you all of my

Hey, I give you all of my support ! Sorry to hear you have been through this.

If I can give you an advice: keep playing the game and do not pay attention to the ones who harass you. I am sure there are some players that are more mature and that would like to play and have fun with you. It is not because there are some stupid people like this that all players of WoW are the same.

Like we say "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." If they see you do not react anymore, they will give up. It is not fun to harass someone if they do not even care about it, you know. Do not worry! This girl was just immature and probably self-centered since she said "You're not good enough to be my friend".

If I was a WoW player too, I would be happy to play with you.
Gustiro's picture

Hello, Wildrose! I am sorry

Hello, Wildrose! I am sorry that person is being nasty. Some people are simply ignorant or this person might just be a troll (the internet kind not the WoW kind, haha) that is trying to get a rise out of you. I find that there is a lot of people like that on WoW. But we got to also keep in mind WoW has been around a long time now and has been very popular so, of course, with more people there is going to be the added rise in trolls and aggressive people.
Are you even sure they are a 17 year old girl? People can call themselves whatever they want on the internet. I could tell you some stories about the crazies I've seen. :/

My advice would be along the lines of what Kamaya said. Try ignoring them and see if it makes any difference. However, I would also start recording everything they say to you and write down the dates that they make contact with you. Screenshot everything. In case this harassment escalates you would then have proof that could be affect in any legal way.

I am not a hardcore WoW player but I do play it from time to time with my best friend since they're addicted to it. I'm more a dirty casual. lol But when I am on it, you are welcome to play with me.

People like that are so

People like that are so unpleasant, I'm sorry you have to go through that. (Apologies in advance for any grammatical, spelling, etc mistakes I make as I'm on mobile currently)

I don't know how WoW works, but I'd definitely recommend playing on a different server if possible. Usually ignoring or avoiding disrespectful people like that works very well, but not always.

Bullies always have a reason for being rude. When I was in middle school, a girl in a few of my classes who was really struggling with her grades noticed that I was doing well where she was struggling. She began pretending to be nice to me to try and get answers for homework and tests, and when I wouldn't do it, she turned nasty, making fun of my clothes, teasing me because a special needs student had a crush on me, really petty stuff like that. She was obviously jealous that I was doing better grade-wise than her (and I assume her parents weren't happy with her grades) so I tolerated her for a bit, but after a while I got tired of it when she became nastier to me because our Spanish teacher started regularly making an example of her during class. One day I went into the bathroom and she was in there with a friend, talking about me. My bully got very upset that I walked in and they both glared at me, so then and there I decided to change tactics.
I began squealing at my bully, saying how much I loved her hair and shoes, what makeup is that OH MY GOOOOSH??? etc etc lol She was very popular and I was not, so me suddenly acting like her best friend horrified her. I did this a few more times (or maybe just once, I don't remember) and she left me alone after that. She wasn't getting what she wanted from me and, even worse, I was embarrassing her in front of her friends, so it wasn't worth it anymore.

Bullying is terrible and bullies are mean, but like I said, they always have a reason to bully (usually it's to relieve some bad feelings they have) and making sure they don't get what they want from you goes a long way. Definitely taking screenshots of their abuse and keeping logs of dates and times will help you once you're able to provide evidence to somebody.
Wildrose's picture

Hello guys! Thank you all so

Hello guys!

Thank you all so much for being supportive! I really do feel blessed with people in this community, You guys never seem to fail to amaze me with kindness on every single post that comes on this community. I love you guys so much, with the things you guys said you really do make me feel like you guys are family to me ;_; <3 I never really consider a lot a family to me as I am not good with interacting with a lot of people due to past history. But I will say this I love this community <3


You guys have brought tears to my eyes to show that people really do care..about others..This is kinda hard to wright this post with out breaking down but it feels so nice to have support as I always just sit in my flat alone from day today :I None of my friends really wanna interact with me because of my social problems which was coursed by my father..+ other reasons .. Sorry If i am blabbing on but so much kindness to people just makes me go into an over drive of emotions.......Thank so much guys <3!!

Wildrose's picture

Hello guys! Thank you all so

Hello guys!

Thank you all so much for being supportive! I really do feel blessed with people in this community, You guys never seem to fail to amaze me with kindness on every single post that comes on this community. I love you guys so much, with the things you guys said you really do make me feel like you guys are family to me ;_; <3 I never really consider a lot a family to me as I am not good with interacting with a lot of people due to past history. But I will say this I love this community <3


You guys have brought tears to my eyes to show that people really do care..about others..This is kinda hard to wright this post with out breaking down but it feels so nice to have support as I always just sit in my flat alone from day today :I None of my friends really wanna interact with me because of my social problems which was coursed by my father..+ other reasons .. Sorry If i am blabbing on but so much kindness to people just makes me go into an over drive of emotions.......Thank so much guys <3!!

Wildrose's picture

Hello guys! Thank you all so

Hello guys!

Thank you all so much for being supportive! I really do feel blessed with people in this community, You guys never seem to fail to amaze me with kindness on every single post that comes on this community. I love you guys so much, with the things you guys said you really do make me feel like you guys are family to me ;_; <3 I never really consider a lot a family to me as I am not good with interacting with a lot of people due to past history. But I will say this I love this community <3


You guys have brought tears to my eyes to show that people really do care..about others..This is kinda hard to wright this post with out breaking down but it feels so nice to have support as I always just sit in my flat alone from day today :I None of my friends really wanna interact with me because of my social problems which was coursed by my father..+ other reasons .. Sorry If i am blabbing on but so much kindness to people just makes me go into an over drive of emotions.......Thank so much guys <3!!

Wildrose's picture

@Gustiro: I would really love

@Gustiro: I would really love to play with you Laughing out loud I never really am with people tbh..as I really do try to avoid people drama but it always seems to follow..sadly. I am sure she is a 17 year old girl..I never don't really stalk her tbh, I attend to leave her be. She really does like to link her Facebook and twitter account. <-- Never ever clicked the links I am no pervert at all and cba for hidden viruses.

@Bayleen: I will follow you advise and leave the game for at least a week! I can then just chill on endless forest or do some of my course work.Thank you for your support I really am blessed with it <3

@Kamaya: Thank you for saying that lovely comment "If i was a wow player too,I would be happy to play with you." This really did make me smile Smiling Because on a lot of poplar games people really just seem to do their own thing whic is totally good but players like me just wanna makes friends etc :I But always end up being alone or just trying to find another game to fit into. Thank you for the supportive text <3

@Fishbiscuit: I know where your coming from fishy<3 I had the same problems in high school I was not very poplar at all..and came from a poor background and everyone in high school just thought it was right to pick on me. I mean people even spat on just because I had greasy hair at one in my life and this was only due to my father spending all of his money that was meant to support me and my younger brother on beers with his friends in the pub. I had tried the tactic that you tried with the young girl but that really never worked for me..It had actually be resulted to having my head dunked into the toilet..To this day I still can not believe how they got away with it..but like teachers say it;s their word against mine.

Even at one point in my life I had this new girl join a high school I was in, I was so nice to her on the first day and showed her about the school etc but about (8month) to her settling into the school she got int the crowd of the "Poplars." I used to call it which where the horrible snooty lot of people...But yea at 1 time they thought it was funny to get the girl to push me up against the wall and threaten me because I had been giving them weird glares...which was just an horrible excuse to bully me....I would go into other things but it will bring up some horrible thing about my past and some other players might get upset reading it! So I will respect that <3